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BM told skids to think about changing their last name to her boyfriend's

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So, as far as I know BM isn't even engaged. But she's been dating this guy since September and the skids told DH that BM told them that when she and her boyfriend get married to "think about" changing their last name to his.

Is this normal? She can't legally change it, but since she has full custody she can make them go by it at school and other events.

why why why

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Can't we just get through one freaking meal without whining and crying that they don't like the food. I used to get to eat like an adult but these kids have been raised on McDonald's and processed foods.

OT-update on my war with infertility or i'm preggers?

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Had my Frozen Embryo Transfer last Thursday...put in 3 little embryos. Felt pretty regular cramping and twinges a few hours after the transfer until yesterday! Well I was going insane no longer feeling anything so I bought a home pregnancy test and it came out very very very faintly positive!!!

It's really early, but SOMETHING is going on down there! Wahoooo

So pray for me and send positive thoughts my way!

I'm trying not to get too excited, it could still go very wrong but it's off to a GREAT start.

PAS resources!

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The family courts have failed my skids! The following is a great video of a leader in the PAS awareness movement.

Check it out!

You will find things like the following said:

• Allowing judges and lawyers to deal with family matters in an adversarial family court system has been nothing but a DISASTER!

• A growing number of citizens are becoming aware of the abuse of power and authority by judges and lawyers in family court. Children and families are being destroyed in family court!

OT-my current struggle with infertility

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Some of you may or may not know that I am infertile. Essentially my body went into menopause at 28. It stinks, but it's been about 7 years, so even though it brings me to my knees on occasion, I've gotten pretty good at dealing with it.

DH and I were approached by a young woman who asked us to adopt her baby. We went ahead and pursued this option. Unfortunately, after having the baby for 3 days, the young woman changed her mind. Again, bringing me to my knees.

picky eaters

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So, another blog brought this to mind.

I believe that my DH was NOT coddled as a child. He was expected to eat what was presented to him and he did. Apparently with a huge grudge that built up too.

Unfortunately, NOW he is EXTREMELY picky and has the food pallet of a 5 year old!

Favorite dish is mac and cheese and fish sticks...

Now sd8 is the finicky one. It drives me mad. I can't stand cooking for unappreciative, critical people. And I can't resolve myself to eating like a 5 year old for the rest of my life.

DH's old wedding ring with BM

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He STILL has it...ugh.

I just don't like it. I know there are a lot worse out there. But it's in his truck right now. We went around to get it appraised and he just hasn't taken it out of his pick up and I see it flashing at me every now and then.

I want to throw it out the window!

If he's going to keep it for the kids, then fine, put it in a box I don't have to see.

If he's going to sell it then DO IT ALREADY! It's been in the truck a year!

What did your DH do with his old wedding ring or you do with yours?

does anybody else have a DH who grooms them?

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I swear, it bugs the crap out of me. He's constantly picking at me pointing out stuff I need to fix or picking something off my face. Or a hair off my back or pointing out that my eye shadow is a bit off or I missed a spot shaving.

Ok, fine some of it isn't so bad...but when we are out an about I can't shave that little spot that nobody can see anyway so don't stinking tell me about it! And I HATE people picking at my face!

He loves it...I hate it.

ugh...

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