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Operant Conditioning (Update)
As mentioned in previous blogs, I am doing an experiment with my SKids...they get treated with a "Good Job" & skittle for performing tasks without being reminded or nagged, following rules & being essentially "good kids"...here's a long overdue update.
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SO is afraid that Nasty will sue for custody if he upsets her...
So I was talking to my SO the other day after an argument over Nasty leaving comments on his facebook pictures…he leaves them there while I think they should be deleted. Her comments ALWAYS say “thank u for posting these. looks like they had a grate time!”. Since he insists on leaving them there, I want to respond with a childish “They weren’t posted for your benefit!” but alas…he thinks me commenting back or him deleting her comments would start her on a tangent.
Nasty & Nasty SR...anything else I can do for you ladies?
So…there really is a reason for my last blog. I had to give a back story in order for you to understand the feeling of nausea that has overcome me because of Nasty’s “traditions”.
After not having sent anything to SS for his birthday, Nasty’s mother (who my SO calls NANNI for crying out loud!), has apparently sent a package to Nasty for the Skids for Christmas.
Christmas & BM Nasty's traditions in MY home
I’m getting tired of having to keep crap for BM Nasty for the Skids because she’s too crappy to do it herself.
I have managed to talk SO into boxing up varied items which have been passed down to the Skids (mainly SD7) from Nasty’s family. Items such as hand-made quilts, stuffed animals and blankets are now put up on the top shelf of the closet for “safe keeping” until they are out on their own. I’m just wondering when Nasty’s family’s traditions & heirlooms are going to find their way out my door.
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Operant Conditioning (day 4)
I spoke to SO & he *tried* to give the Skids each a skittle for doing something that they normally have to be nagged about. He said they haven’t done anything else today that warrants being “treated”. Turns out, although BOTH deserved a “treat”, only SS9 got one.
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Day 3 of Operant Conditioning was put on pause.
I am house sitting for MIL so am not at home. Before leaving, I went over what SO needed to “treat” the Skids for & apparently, their brains were no shows yesterday.
Literally, every single thing they are SUPPOSED to do was forgotten, therefore, SO had to remind them, which in turn, turned to nagging because they weren’t listening. So the Skids got ZERO “treats” yesterday.
I’m staying at MIL’s until Saturday morning, so I can only assume that the Skids will continue to treat their father like crap until I return.
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Really BM Nasty? Really?
What is it with POS BM’s? Nasty has copied photo’s that I had posted of the SKids & used one of them as her damn profile pic on FB!
HOW RUDE!
She literally has NOTHING to do with her children yet she feels she can take photo’s off of MY page even though they were PAID for my ME! Her only contact with them was for a total of 12 minutes, combined to cover 2 phone calls with 2 children...so that's what...6 minutes per month per child? Awesome!
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Operant Conditioning (Day 2)
It was requested that I post updates, so here's the first one My reasoning for doing this is on my last blog http://www.steptalk.org/node/52529.
Day 2 seems to be going by without any issues…which makes for a nice change for us.
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Operant Conditioning (TRAINING)
I haven’t blogged in awhile as things have been about the same…no changes to speak of, just naughty Skids caring not for the house rules or whether or not SO & I are happy with their behavior.
SS9 has been a turd since his birthday. He has literally lost the use of his brain. He has received conduct marks repeatedly at school, isn’t doing what he’s meant to at home & has been a pain in the butt. SO & I have tried EVERYTHING but nothing is working.
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YAY for sales & things working out for the better!
This happened a couple of weeks ago, but I just HAD to share!
SO & I went to Wal Mart to pick up something for MIL & I asked him to walk through the toy section with me to ensure that we were on the same page as far as SS’s (almost 9) upcoming birthday & how much we were planning on spending on his gifts.
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