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SS19 You can kiss my ASS!!

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Submitted by anothermom on Wed, 10/14/2015 - 6:07pm

SS19 was here last night when, I got home from work!(Aside, from babysitting,I coach gymnastics) I was fuming! I do not want him on the couch when my babysitting kids are here!!!
My BFF calls in the morning we chit chat before she goes in the office. I was telling her about ss19 on the couch. She told me to kick his bottom out! I told her,"I do not leave BKS with SO and they are minors! I think SO should take SS with him to work, let him use his car to and "job hunt"."
Well,I went and shook SS and told him to move spots. He didn't even budge. As,I saw a car pull up I said,"they're here"(I have a mile long drive way) He jumps up and says,"what's this shit about I should go to work with my Dad?, I'm up!"I said"Yes, you should go with him,I don't have time for this,hell, I don't need to live like this!" He got in the shower. Parents never saw him,hooray!!!
I got a call from SO, on how I said this and that I never cursed! He totally fluffed the story! Not that I should of been surprised! I told SO I signed a new lease. Im not doing this anymore! You, could sense the uneasiness. I had to go another kid arrived.
SS spent all day repainting his bike.
I just got home and SO is gone.Hopefully,dropping off SS somewhere!!!
I'm tired and after redoing 3 routines, I'm ready for some R&R

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 10/15/2015 - 7:31am

I told SO I signed a new lease. Im not doing this anymore! You, could sense the uneasiness.

Maybe, hopefully, your SO will take you seriously, now.

Years ago, we let my BIL spend a night on our couch. ONE night and he had to leave the next morning when DH and I went to work. DH and I both agreed a long time ago that no other adult live with us, it is too taxing on the relationship. And he knows his family, a night or two turns into FOREVER.

Not to mention, BIL drank all of our beer in the middle of the night and the whole reason he had to spend the night was because he got into a drunken fight with his sister, who he was living with. So, he was already drunk but had to drink our beer after we were nice enough to let him crash at our place? Ugh!

Luckily, this issue has not come up with DH's daughter.