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Moving day!?!?

anothermom's picture

For the longest time, I have been bitching and moaning. SO is finally moving out. He told me last night. He, also asked if his s19 and dog could stay! WTF! NO!!!!
I would keep the dog before the son!!!! My BK's want the dog, because he is neglected by SO. Its sad. The only reason the dog is annoying is because S19 has taken over his "area".
S19 has a third shift job.He has totally taken over my breezeway. I can't use the entranceways(there are three) one is to the garage. When I grocery shop I have to take the long way. My daughter and I smelt pot. I don't know what we would see. He's stolen. Ugh!! The list goes on....
I don't know why SO would even ask! He made me feel like a bitch by saying,"You are the one who said s19 needs someone to help him stand on his own, and now, you won't be that person."
I really needed to vent this out,thanks!

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MineAndYours's picture

You have to take care of you by doing what you feel is best. Obviously SO isn't worried. Good luck and stay strong!

MineAndYours's picture

You have to take care of you by doing what you feel is best. Obviously SO isn't worried. Good luck and stay strong!

hereiam's picture

I have heard it all, now. The son being there is the reason for all of the discord in the first place, isn't it?

anothermom's picture

I came home from work and they did leave! SO left a note saying he was leaving the
dog for now. He thinks the abrupt move will be hard on the pet! I want him! So I was happy!!! I'm going to get that note;)

Exjuliemccoy's picture

Congratulations! Sweet freedom for you and your kids AND the dog.

notsurehowtodeal's picture

Change the locks and make sure the dog is in the house when you are not home.

If SO won't provide documentation that the dog is now yours - let SO know when he arrives to pick up the dog that he ran away.