I just saw a nutty BM screaming at her ex. When I have a free minute sometimes I'll watch old Steve Wilkos clips. He's had some wackos on, including nutty BMs.

I would just like these women to know that there are healthy, good ways of resolving issues with your ex that don't involve the kids. If you're not getting the CS you're owed, you go through the courts and the state. Better yet, maybe email your ex first. You don't withhold visitation and/or let the kids know about these issues. Don't even speak about them when the kids are in your place.

So many people get mad at the exes for things, like not communicating, not giving info, withholding visitation, moving without consent, etc.

I mean, I do understand why people get mad, because an ex doing those things amounts to pas. But I also feel, "you broke up with this person. You obviously had huge issues with them and there was miscommunication. What did you think they'd do? Did you think they'd automatically start getting along with you?"

So, what did your dh think bm would do when they broke up/divorced? What did you think your ex would do?

Did you hear about his tv show? The more I learn about him the more I believe that he's not a victim of pas. If a pap was truly annoying him, he could've shoved him and said "hey, a$$hole, f!ck off!"

It seems like the only thing he's a victim of is himself. He is probably everything he called his daughter in that atrocious voicemail.

The blog written earlier today got me to thinking about this.

Many of these BMs seem like they have crazy histories. Before I have sex with someone, I like to know about their history, and if they have any mental issues.

Many of these guys didn't love the BMs. But they had some sort of relationship with them, and had sex with them?

Most of these guys aren't victims.