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Anniemorris's picture

Help people please. 

My dd has had enough of her ss. 

My dd is 11 and the ss in question is 16.

Sd don't live with us and we only see her a few times a month. Back home she's an only child. She sleeps on the sofa when with us as she refuse to share a room with the other Sd or my dd.

Last night after we went to bed, dd woke up to go toilet, and Sd was in the kitchen making herself cake and custard, she cut herself on the tin, and told dd that she felt ill, so dd stayed with her untill she felt better which was around 1 am, during that time Sd told dd that she's got kidney problems and one is at 30% and the other is at 70% and when they arnt working properly she feels ill like she is now.

I woke up and knew nothing of this, I just phoned my dp as he's with Sd 2 at the hospital as sd1 is in hospital, and he said do you know what time your dd went to bed last night and then he said sd2 HD said she was up with her untill 1 and begged for custard..... 

I asked my daughter after that what had happened and she said I helped clean up the blood and stayed with her as she didn't feel well and told me about the kidney which Sd must have told her as my dd Knew percentage and she is only 11! And that Sd offered her custard.

Why lie like that it's really upset my daughter. 

And me tbh. 

I can't bring it up really as dpwill belive sd2, as he gets like this every time she's up, even going so far this time as saying that these past few months me and your daughter arnt getting on.... 

Now iknow dd can be a pain in the bum, but carnt all kids?

All she wants is a stable safe haven as she do t have much of that when she visits her dad. 

It's like she's not wanted around when both Sd are at this house. 

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tog redux's picture

OK, I'm thoroughly confused about who is who in your story, but the problem is your DH. If he will automatically believe his daughter regardless of what anyone else says, he's empowering her bad behavior.

advice.only2's picture

I'm sorry can you clarify a bit better? I'm reading this as you have a BD (birth daughter) and about 2-3 SD's (step daughters).

fourbrats's picture

to make my way through this post I am going to say that the truth likely lies somewhere in the middle. Your DD was up late and did head into the kitchen. SD cut herself. Your kid helped her clean up and probably asked for dessert and they got to talking and your kid was up too late. They are both at fault and both fudged the truth to avoid getting into trouble like kids will do. Let them each have the natural consequences (tired, etc) of that. 

ESMOD's picture

I agree.. I think there is some kind of middle truth here... Unless the toilet is in the kitchen.. DD was angling for a bit of the custard she knew was there.. and oops.. found the other SD there already.

Anniemorris's picture

Yes we have a toilet downstairs along with kitchen 2 bedrooms and living room. 

Other bedroom is sd 1 that lives with us, but unfortunately is in hospital right now. 

Sd 2 refused to sleep in there even though there's a bunk bed and nothing wrong with the room. 

 

Anniemorris's picture

Yes toilet is downstairs. 

I have 2 sd. 

Top it off the sd who caused this has jist told my dd that she's not allowed on a particular app around her.... I have entered the room and now sd has run off to her dad, as she probably knows that dd will have told me. 

And yet if I say anything no my kid is wrong. 

All tjis after sd has just had  a new moped off us because shes so depressed at home..... 

Had enough now i think I should just save up and leave. 

Because there is talk of her moving in with us..... Clearly she will make life hell.