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Has BioHo been hitting the eggnog??

Aniki-Moderator's picture

'Ho called DH to ask if we wanted to come over for "family Christmas".

DH: For WHAT?!

Ho: Family Christmas.

DH: Have you been hitting the eggnog?? WE are NOT family. ~click~

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Jcksjj's picture

Omg. Family Christmas would be BM dream. She sent SIL an email a couple years ago begging for sympathy and I'm assuming wanting an invite to xmas with the in laws. She claimed that she had no family to spend xmas with because her dad was too mentally ill for her to be around (a lie because she has posted recent pictures with him including celebrating on xmas and she also has him babysit SD). Also her mom usually flies up for a week for the holidays but I guess her parents arent family. And then she went on about how grateful she was to my inlaws for all they had done for her. ( DH said they all hated her and she barely spoke at family things).

Your DHs reaction is great though. What is with these women that they just never give up on needing to be included with everything? I'd be so embarrassed acting that desperate especially if iys been made clear that their ex wants nothing to do with them.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Dream vs Nightmare!

'Ho seems to think that since we all spent time together at SS19's graduation, everything is hunkydory and we're all great friends!!

Apparently, taking the high road seems to mean I want to be besties. Just one thing... she is totally delusional.

 

Jcksjj's picture

That is EXACTLY the same as BM! Just why?? Why would you want to hang out with your ex, his new wife and their kids?

notasm3's picture

When I'd barely met DH years ago I went to his family reunion. His father was one of about 10 so there were so many relatives to meet.  It was difficult to keep track of all the relatives.  I met many people and became FB friends with several.  I was horrified to find out that one of my new FB friends was the ex of DH's cousin.  They'd been divorced for years, she was NOT invited to the reunion - she just crashed it.  My DH's cousin had remarried and even was there with a new baby.  She was just an ahole - I blocked her immediately after finding out who she really was.  

Jcksjj's picture

This reminds me of a family funeral I went to not long ago that one of my moms cousins ex wife attended. She was talking to my mom about how she was still like a family member to her exes family and you could just hear the desperation and sadness in her voice. I do think attending the funeral was fine but she kept going on and on to my mom about all the ways she was still family like she was trying to prove it to herself.

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Gads!

Aniki-Moderator's picture

What is it with these people who think all is wonderful after a divorce/split?? Whackadoodle!!

Cooooookies's picture

I absolutely love your DH's answers to Ho!!

BM2 asked if her and I could be sister wives we've she found out DH and I were going to get married. 

She also asked why BM1 was invited to our house for gatherings (because she's not a crazy hoar) and she wasn't.  A "friend" wanted to know. 

DH replied "I seem to recall not even being invited to my own son's Christening, let alone any party you may have had."

Silence.  Gotta love psycho BM's...

Cooooookies's picture

Not kidding, unfortunately.  We also, unbeknownst to me when I chose the wedding date, got married the day before BM2's birthday.  She loses her marbles every single year when our anniversary comes around.   Such fun. 

Fool