So my DH IS 'tired of always being the bad guy"(bm has no boundaries) and has decided sd16 can do whatever she wants. She has no consequences for things she is supposed to do but doesn't. This is not the person I married. In my eyes he's now just like BM.
I am so frustrated I don't even know what to do except disengage from both of them. This is not the type of person I wanted for my kids.