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It's time to be a man titbag your damn near 35 !

aminsane's picture

Wow, my first entry on my first blog, can't believe that I'm resorting to this but, after reading what others have posted,I think it's gonna be be some great self help! My mates youngest son is a worthless piece of shit. I have come to hate him with all my heart and every fiber within my being! Our once happy home is gone. Gone I tell you ! Gone and with it went our once happy relationship. Because of You, you Fat, worthless, self loathing,google mastering, coochie-coo playin, titbag, dragon slayin, unemployeed, know it all, weirdo, moochin son of a bitch, that sucks the life out of everything you come into contact with! You selfish bastard do you realize your father and I have not been alone together literaly in two and a half years, with the exception of your much needed vacation to Colorodo that you supposedly went on. I still can't figure out how you drove there in and back in two days, it's a two day drive one way from the house you dork. We know you drove into town and stayed in a hotel and drank and drank and drank, of course you don't remeber that you called us at 9:00 that night, THE SAME DAY YOU LEFT and said you were finaly there! DUMBASS! It is wayyyyy past time for you to get a job, get a life and get out! WE bust our asses everyday for what we have and all you do is take. I'm sick of your dillusions of grandur and sense of entitlement. Your no better that the rest of your siblings...... My gosh even the 17 year old knows that couples need time together just to talk and hang out. We can't even go out to eat without you taggin along, and if we do we have to do carry out for you! At home you dont even make your own plate everybody else does...and there you are parked at the table lickin' your chops like a rabbid dog. your bathroom looks like a shitfest happend in there, how do you mange to make such a freakin mess really doesnt that embaress you, is it a kinky fetish or what, and you expect your Dad to clean it up daily. This whole playing coochie-coo with your dad while watching tv is just plain revolting, not only to me but to your dad and everyone else. Your to old for that shit! Really whats wrong with you! No wonder your mother wants nothing to do with you your a panty waste! an embarrasing skidmark on the family name. News flash, THE UGLY LIGHTS ARE ON..... I HAVE LEFT THE PITY PARTY! I HEREBY DECLARE WAR ON YOU titbag! I am not willing to take your shit any longer. I'm gonna drive you crazy just as you have done me. I'm gonna manipulate, aggravate,and play headgames with you, embarress you, whatever I can do to make your life hell just as you have done to me! *google master.... someone who is always googling useless info. on the phone for no reason. *coochie-cooing... How an adult plays with a baby, reaching and pawing or tickling them.

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novemberm's picture

You read my mind, as I was thinking special needs, too. But, some of what the OP wrote indicate this man is able to function enough that he can be independent or mostly independent. I have worked with special needs kids for years and we always encourage as much independence as possible. This case sounds like maybe there are some issues, but it also sounds like he can work, but is just lazy. Maybe the OP's mate feels guilty for some reason or another.

I would not allow any more Internet, and not pay for ANYTHING or provide anything, unless there is some issue we missed in the post. 35 years old seems shocking for these behaviors, but my DH's kids are headed on this path. They are younger, but they REFUSE to work, and have repeatedly said they will not ever work. They lay around all day, playing video games, eating, and then whining incessantly about having no money. BM allows this. They are able to work, but they seem to be hinting that they are injured (one has a bad back but can drive all over and party all the time) and have social anxiety disorder (no!). I fully expect them to start applying for SSI or something. It is appalling. They have nothing wrong except the diseases of entitlement and extreme laziness.

I feel for the OP. His mate's son sounds incredibly difficult to deal with.

Rags's picture

I like your total warfare bare his ass publically and embarrassingly strategy. NOW DO IT!!!

First thing .... send him on an all day errand then change the locks.

Most importantly your mate has to put his hands between his own legs, grab a fist full of sack and MAN UP!!

He is the panty waste (not a spelling error) that your 35yo SS is modeling himself after and his total lack of testicular fortitude is the root cause of his 35yo son's status as a waste of skin.

I think your ire towards your SS totally appropriate but should be matched with equal ire towards your mate.

You live with two worthless excusses for men. :sick:

IMHO of course.

LRP75's picture

Duuuude, 35???

Holy crap! I'm 37 and I could NOT imagine sponging off of my family and living like that. I ask the same question posited above? Does he have special needs? If not, take him to the nearest homeless shelter and drop him off. Seriously.

Namehere's picture

1. Disengage.

2. Turn off the internet, cable. (Forget to pay the bill, change
services, loose power cords.

3. Buy only healthy food. No snacks, drinks, prefab,

4.Don't take lumpy anywhere. Refuse to go if he does.

5. Keep separate finances.

6. Get your own place.

LRP75's picture

^ This!

I can understand if you aren't going to divorce/move out...

But I agree with everything else: make SS's life extremely uncomfortable. Make it so that he isn't getting a free ride anymore. Refuse to go out to eat if he's going. Refuse to make him dinner or to buy foods that he likes to eat. Make him absolutely miserable. Then, when he starts bitching about not getting his way, take him to the nearest homeless shelter.