So I'm driving to work this morning and get a phone call from my BF asking if I left the house yet. Yes I was on my way to work, he says that BM has been calling his phone non-stop because she found out that the kids didn't want to go to daycare today, they wanted to hang around the house instead. SS11 and SD9 HATE the daycare, as I understand they are getting older, and they wanted to stay home instead. So my Mom was off today and said she would come by around lunch time to see how things were and stay with them for a while. I had no problem with this, as it wasn't a big deal. So BM freaks because she "thinks" they should be at the daycare (which is also where she works), but that is only because she feels like she is more in control if they go there during the day on our weeks so she can "check up" on them. It's patethic. All school year long she won't see them all week, but because school is out now, she has to have them there everyday. Whatever, so I told him that she would have to deal, it's our week anyhow, we don't instruct her what to do on her weeks, so why should she on ours???

So I get to work and get another phone call from my BF saying that BM's father was really upset because the kids really were just going to the daycare until BM's father could come and pick them up and take them fishing today. WTF! Now the story changes, as it ALWAYS does! So BM's dad talks to my BF on the phone and asks him if he can take skids fishing, so he tells him yes. I'm pissed because he is going back on our decision to let them chill out at the house today, but the bigger problem is that BM's dad is coming to my house while noone is there except the skids????????

I was livid! If they were normal people I wouldn't care as much, but they are nosey type people, always wondering what is going on with my BF and I and how we are living our lives. BM is not allowed at our house at all because she is so psycho, her Dad tries to be civil, but still will do anything his dear daughter asks him to. I can't believe that my BF is completely fine with this whole thing, and he is acting like I'm being rediculous. I told him why don't you just invite BM over later for dinner, you know since our house is such a public place for everyone.

Sorry, I needed to get that out! Grrrrrrr, I don't understand why my BF thinks all these things that he decides are no big deal. Ummmm it's my house too, don't be so inconsiderate, ask me before you allow something like this to go on! I guess if we would have talked about it first, it would have been different...