I’m loosing my mind!!
My step son has an abusive passed by his mother’s bf, so he came to live with us 2 yrs ago. We have been together for 6yrs and everything was great. SS also ADHA and anxiety problems which he is on meds for. My SS hates me and treats my daughter like crap. Recently it went to far when he tried to choke her and then break her arm. A family member watches the kids after school for me and was able to break them up but alls his dad did was make an appointment to take him to the doctor and yelled at him for what he did. BTW the night it all happened he didn’t even bother coming home right after work, he stop at a friend’s house to hang out for awhile. SS was never punished and even when he is it doesn’t seem to have any affect. I’m getting to the point that I can’t stand to be home. We also have an 8 month old together. Some moments I just want to end the relationship because I’m not being fair to my 9yr old. I’m at a point that I’m at my wits in with this kid.
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How old id SS? I think I
How old id SS? I think I would have called the cops. I would also have a seroius talk with DH. How dare he stop to party a bit before coming to take care of his kid!!
He's 11 yrs old and will be
He's 11 yrs old and will be going to middle school next year. We did have it out when he got home. I sent my SS to bed right after dinner which was around 6 just bc i just couldn't stand the sight of him after what he did to my daughter.
I would love to send him to
I would love to send him to after school care but I can't afford it. We had to take an pay cut just for him to keep his job and that was a better choice than no job. That's why we have a family member watch the kids cause she doesn't charge me.
I have been disengaging myself from him but then he starts in on my daughter. He will do anything to piss me off it seems. He is very revengeful. Trust me I don't want to be alone with him at all but I have no choice. His own mom won't take him back bc of the way he is.
Have you ever felt like just ending the relationship bc you can't take it anymore. His dad did take him to the doctor after the incident and they increased his meds to try and keep him calm but I haven't noticed a differance yet. I'm at the point that I don't want to go home.
I'm at that point where that
I'm at that point where that is what I'm thinking of doing. I have been looking for a place of my own