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Ramblings of Grand Hag on Facebook.....

advice.only2's picture

Copied and pasted from Grand Hag's page...meth ex mom.

On my mind today is my outrage at the "Me Too" movement. We live in a society where woman make a point at doing whatever they must to attract attention. Being sexy is very important and many female celebrities consider it their "privilege" to dress as seductively and flirtatiously as possible. The Red Carpet is cluttered with women who dress as little as possible. Tempt, tease, entice, but cry when someone says anything or does anything to take them up on their visual invitation.

I say that if women really don't want the attention of men, they should stop wearing low necklines, short hemlines, make-up, and stop worrying about how white your teeth are, or how flawless your skin might be. Why are you so worried about it? Why worry about being fit or stylish. Make sure you are plain. That way you will not attract unwanted attention to yourself.

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WalkOnBy's picture

Oh, good. Blame the victims.

How DARE we think that men can't grab us by the p*ssy any old time they want? Of COURSE it's our fault.

:sick: :sick: :sick:

advice.only2's picture

Right, this woman is insane, she's the same woman who would tell the police she had custody of SD and would demand they arrest DH for keeping her from her grand daughter.

advice.only2's picture

When SD aged out DH and I weren't sure which made up happier, being free of meth ex or grand hag

beebeel's picture

My skin's maternal GMA is a real POS as well. The RO I had against her was worth every penny.

notsobad's picture

AAAARRRRGGGGG

There are so many things wrong with that statement!
They’ve been said and posted a thousand times.

I wonder if she’s also the type of person who thinks Islam and burkas are wrong?

Having boys, what offends me the most is that she doesn’t think that boys and men have any control at all!
That simply because they see something attractive they are entitled to have it.
I have raised my boys to be so much better than that.

advice.only2's picture

What's so damn ironic about the last part is both meth ex and SD are very wrapped up in their looks and dressing trashy.

queensway's picture

Grand Hag is a Debbie Downer. I love fashion and I dress for myself not a man. MAKE YOURSELF PLAIN. No thank you. I am a woman and I will dress anyway I want to.

Grand Hag is everything wrong with how a woman should think of herself.

advice.only2's picture

"Grand Hag is everything wrong with how a woman should think of herself."

EXACTLY!

notasm3's picture

I don’t want to call her grandgag as she never intruded in our life. But she died last week. I never knew her at all. I don’t know if SS cares at all

lieutenant_dad's picture

So, I may upset people with this, but I have some issues with the Me Too movement. Not that I agree with Grand Hag because she seems clueless, but I have reservations.

I agree that men (and women) shouldn't harass, assault, or rape women (and men). I think there needs to be harsher punishments for those who do heinous things.

HOWEVER, the punishment needs to fit the crime. A man who cat-calls you shouldn't be put on the same level as a man who rapes you. Flirting with a man where he takes the flirting (as in talking, not touching) farther than you are comfortable with zero prior indication that it may be too far doesn't make him scum, nor should he be called out via social media. If you are drunk and make out with an equally-drink dude, he's no more an assaulter than you are, and he shouldn't be jailed or harassed for mutually stupid decisions.

I get frustrated with SOME (small fraction) of the Me Too-ers because they present stories like the one above and want the same amount of sympathy and "justice" as someone who is truly victimized. It makes it harder for actual victims to get justice because society questions their motives thanks to stories of stupid people doing stupid things. Victims have to overly prove they were victimized, to the point that we re-victimize the victims in our efforts to deliver the right justice. On the flip side, men who do stupid but not harmful things, or just make a social misstep (like misjudging the flirty intentions of a woman and saying the wrong thing - nothing physical), can get harassed themselves WORSE than the perceived sin they committed. A man who cat-calls at work should be fired; he shouldn't receive threats of violence and death.

So, while I think Grand Hag is way off base, I can understand why people COULD be frustrated by people using the movement to gain attention, put a dude they don't like on blast, or just plain man-bash. It hurts the purpose of the whole movement and makes it harder for people who need justice from this movement to get it.

classyNJ's picture

Nicely said! Its sad when SS19 coaches have to tell the team to just be more aware when flirting or taking a girl back to your dorm. Make sure you are never alone with a female. Sad

advice.only2's picture

I agree, it's just ironic for Grand Hag to espouse on this topic seeing as her daughter (meth ex) is a big ol hoe as well as she dresses like she's going stripping, and SD is as vain as they come and only cares about how she looks and dresses like a hooker. I can guarantee that Grand Hag does not think that meth ex or SD pertain to her list.

Ispofacto's picture

I used to dress like snl's "church lady" at work to avoid harassment. It didn't work. It doesn't matter what a woman wears. Predators be predators.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

So true, Ispofacto! Just like wearing a wedding ring will not keep people from hitting on someone they find attractive.

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

But it does aid in the process if you need to whack them with something Smile