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i guess we are empty nesters.

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With both my kids being adults now and skids not wanting to come over we are pretty much alone. Biggrin it feels awesome. We can go and do anything we want. I also dont have the problem with dh giving money to bm or skids since he has the mentality of that is what cs is for. Yay so happy that we can be a couple without all these issues.

dh read my blogs

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He was very nice about it agreed with me about them being ungrateful. He also said he really loved the part where I said i love spending time with him. He is not happy with his kids right now.

I think him reading my blogs helped him with his kids as well. I hope anyway. We had a good talk about them and he still wants to wait til they call him and want to come over. I dont know if that is the best way but it is his choice.

skids dont want to come for summer visit.

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First i want to say good for me im happy b/c i like it being just dh and me. But any way im sad for dh b/c they were being nasty little shits to him last time there were here and wanted to go home as soon as dh stopped spending money and having fun.

But at the same time why are they allowed to choose if they are coming or not. It just makes me so mad but im not going to say anything b/c its just better on me when they arent here.

ungrateful little shits

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This took me a few days to post b/c ive been so busy.....monday when dh got home the boys wanted to home as soon as the fun was over and no more money was being spent they were gone. Then top top it all off ss16 tried to tell dh that he didn't spend any time with them ans was up her butt the whole time at disney. I lost it at that point as i was trying to stay out of it and dh was doing a good job. But i couldn't sit there through that one. I looked at him and said you CHOOSE to stay in bed and not get up and go with us just like the other 2 did too.

yucks plan back fired lol

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On our way home yesterday she texted saying she wanted to know if we were keeping ss15 and ss12 or if they were coming home with ss16. What that was the first we heard of this as dh has them til the 15th. Well yuck assumed that ss16 was working today (how that makes her think he will stay at her house me but oh well) so any way dh had ss16 call his work to conform him working or not and he doesnt have to be there til Wednesday. So yuck got upset and tried to,say she called his work and he has to be there today. Ss16 told yuck that he will stay with dad.

we are back....

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Loved it! And the crowds werent too bad we never waited more than 30 mins for anything and we ate at 4 different table services that i was told we would get too without resies.

However i wanted to strangle ss16 and dd. First dd wanted to stay up late and keep the tv on all night knowing we had to get up early and she expected more money on top of what i gave her.

Then ss16 wanted to stay in the hotel the whole time and play games. Why he was allowed to bring them idk.

see what is that in the sky? pigs? are they flying????? omg

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Yuck called dh last night b/c the boys lost the list i sent and wanted to know what they needed. As the conversation went on somehow it said that she is a little jealous. Then dh told her that i said felt a little guilty for taking and she hasn't taken them yet b/c if it had been my kids i wouldn't want them to go with out me so that i experience it with them for the first time. Yuck said to tell purple not feel bad or anything b/c she feels blessed to have some take them as she cant b/c she can't walk very far b/c she is too big to get around very well and it hurts her feet as a result.

why does yuck have to be so ready to fight?

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Yuck textded dh yesterday
Yuck: we need to have a little chat
Dh: what did i do this time ( being a smart butt)
Yuck : oh no nothing it is about the trip

So dh called her b/ c he doesnt want anything to happen before we leave. So this is what she wanted.

There is a tropical storm in fl right now and wanted to know if we were watching the weather. And if we were going to cancel. Dh told her nope we are not canceling and yes we have been watching it. It's not like we are spending all this money and not plan.

thought i would update on my brother and his divorce.

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I posted about how my brother had been married for 6 moths and she left him but wanted a lot on spousal support and she wanted him to sell his truck and give her half the money.

He counter her with all the money she spent on getting hair and nails done and the money she took out of his account without him knowing. He also said that she quit her job and he told her not too. He then found out she said she was preggo but lied. She dropped the whole thing and just wanted her name back.

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