It's officially been a year since I left my ex.  He's had a girlfriend since the day after we signed papers.  WHo the one time I talked to the girls they told me they hated and her kid is a bully to them, which I feel awful for them, but I've accepted I can't fix it. I guess I'm just reflecting.

So to catch you all up on my SUPER fabulous life... I play video games. A lot lately... One in particular online game I have a guild in.  Which is great.  My guild, like pretty well every other guild is the game, is primarily male, which is no biggie at all.

That's just eh background, onto the issue at hand:

I'm officially on the market for houses. I found a cute forclosure I LOVE and am in the beginning stages of getting it. Hopefully it will come soon and smoothly, as I desprately need my own space. Plus it's priced 10k below the last appraisal and work has been done on it since.

I got the talk to the skids. WIthout any involvement from the s***head.  His mom actually called. She has the girls the majority of the time (shocking I know) and said they missed me and wanted to talk to me.  I talked to them for a bit, averyone came away happy, I didn't have to talk to the ex at all. So there was no stress. I've mostly blocked the ex on stuff at this point, and my stress levels are WAY down.