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SD15 choosing not to come this weekend

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Submitted by Silent14 on Fri, 09/01/2017 - 2:20pm

This is the first weekend since DH told SD15 he would no longer force her to come over on scheduled weekends. She has chosen not to come this weekend. It's fine with me, but I can tell DH is a little bothered by it. DH did try to text her midweek to say hi, but the message was not delivered. Not sure if BM smartened up and cut her phone off, or if she just blocked DH. Either way, cheers to a peaceful weekend.

SD15 trying to crash my DD's birthday party

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Submitted by Silent14 on Fri, 07/14/2017 - 1:22pm

My DD invited a few friends over for this coming weekend for pizza and swimming to celebrate her birthday. The intention was it would be just for her and her friends (no sisters or step sisters). I scheduled it on our skid free weekend and made plans for my younger DD to go to a friends house. Living in a house with 4 girls, time without sisters almost never happens. So it's kinda a special event.

Vacation jealousy

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Submitted by Silent14 on Mon, 06/19/2017 - 9:06am

Over the weekend SD12 and DH had a little argument. DH was planning to pick up SD12 in the morning on Father's day. SD12 was pissed because she didn't want to come until later in the day. During this argument, SD12 started getting nasty about not getting her way. It came out that she was also mad that she wasn't invited on my Mother's Day weekend getaway. Now, she was with her mother for Mother's day, as it should be.

All of this got me to thinking...

I need a better attitude

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Submitted by Silent14 on Thu, 06/15/2017 - 12:45pm

Someone please help talk me though this because I am really struggling...

On the weeks/weekends that SD15 is due to visit, I am in a bad mood before she even arrives. Just the thought of the visit stresses me out. I tend to be withdrawn the entire visit in attempt to avoid her. We don't speak to each other much. I feel like I'm just waiting for her to act like a fool, and she never disappoints.

Interesting little observation

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Submitted by Silent14 on Wed, 06/14/2017 - 5:15pm

DH offered to make dinner tonight since I'm working late and have an after work obligation. He ended up running a little behind schedule, so he called my BD13 to ask her to get the meat started (it's an easy dinner tonight). Funny thing is SD15 is here this week. He didn't ask his own kid who is older for help. This is not the first time he has went to BD13 instead of SD15 for help.

Holy hell

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Submitted by Silent14 on Sun, 06/11/2017 - 9:35pm

Sd15 just had to be told that she can't jump on the trampoline in her bra and she must wear a shirt outside. She actually tried to argue. What is wrong with kids these days???

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