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Submitted by tankh21 on Sat, 11/17/2018 - 5:03pm

I love the fact that BM only read and knows the CO when it matter to her and her life.  She pretends that she doesn't know what the CO says when it has anything to do with DH's visitation, etc.  I also love the fact that she thinks that the skids school actitvities or anything like that that falls on DH's trumps everything else no matter what.  

Here an update in my life....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 11/09/2018 - 7:22pm

I haven't blogged in awhile so here goes....OSS is still trying to sabotage my marriage using manipulation.  I avoid him like the plague.  OSS is still DH's little golden child.  BM thinks that the skids should always come first no matter what we have going on in our lives.  I do not go anywhere with DH when he has the skids anymore so I could really care less.  I have just been in my own little world and ignore all of the drama which I guess is why I haven't been complaining so much.  I hope everyone is doing well.  

Manipulating reptile on the war path again!!

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 10/12/2018 - 8:39pm

OSS's birthday is tomorrow he is turning 14.  DH had texted BM and OSS a few weeks ago that he was going to pick him up on his birthday from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm per the CO.  Then all of the sudden today BM starts her manipulating guilt trip mind games telling DH that she got tickets for some game and that she is taking OSS demanding that he pick him up on Sunday because she is not going to let him ruin his birthday.  DH tried to get me involved of course I just laughed and said what do you want me to do about it?  He said I need help on respond to her text messages.  I just told him to take

Hell and there after....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 10/10/2018 - 9:17pm

So a week ago DH and me got into a huge fight about this beach trip that I planned because he wanted to bring the skids and MIL and I canceled the trip altogether.  Fast foward to this afternoon....I get a text message from DH saying that MIL still wants to go on the beach trip.  I told DH that I was not changing my mind and that the trip was still canceled.  He then blows up at me and tells me that I hate the skids and MIL and that if it was my family it would be a different story.  Then he said that I am cheating on him.  LOL  Where that came from I have no idea.  Maybe he is the one chea

MIL and BM....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 10/01/2018 - 5:41pm

MIL is starting drama once again and of course DH is oblivious to it.  MIL told DH that she was planning on coming to visit sometime in October.  I asked DH the other day did he know when exactly she was coming because I am trying to plan a weekend camping trip.  I told DH when we were planning on going and everything is fine over the weekend.  Then of the sudden today DH tells me to call him so I do and he tells me that MIL still doesn't know when she is coming but if it's at the end of October when we are going on our trip that MIL and the skids will be coming as well.  I made sure that i

Always and forever take three....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Sat, 09/22/2018 - 8:58am

So yesterday I told DH that I wanted to plan a trip camping at the end of October so I could get away and relax.  YSS was sitting next to him and I wasn't trying to hurt his feelings but apparently DH thought I was trying to.  DH said that I said that on purpose in front of his kid just to be a douche.  He said that his kids are welcome anytime camping with us and that I can either deal with it or move on.  What do you think about this?  I honestly wasn't even trying to hurt the kid's feelings.  

So I am clueless on this....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 09/14/2018 - 8:14pm

So...all of the sudden YSS has been hanging all over DH and hugging him he will see me walk by and run up to DH and do this.  This just recently started.  Do you think he is doing it because he is trying to get underneath my skin?  I mean it's just weird that this just started he is going to be 12 years old in a few weeks!! 

Always and forever....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Sun, 09/09/2018 - 10:34am

So a lot has happened....BM texted DH at 6 am on Friday morning once again completely ignoring the fact that she has been told not to text or call before 9:00 am unless it's an emergency.  She was texting DH to let him know that it's not his weekend.  Apparently the skids told her that DH was picking up them at 6:00 pm. 

DH told her to please look at the visitation calendar and that it was in fact his weekend since it's the first weekend of the month.  Then she said that the skids are all stressed out when they come over here and they no longer want to come over. 

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