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So close to good.

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Thu, 08/10/2017 - 7:17pm

I need share and my Facebook / groups are still being stocked so here it is.

SO is so close to finishing the agreement with BM. The big thing is child support is set. That means for one year he will pay X amount in child support to be taken directly from his check. In another year she has the right to request his tax information and then do what she will with it. That is perfectly fine.

Agreement and preparing for contempt.

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Sat, 08/05/2017 - 3:55pm

SO met with the lawyer yesterday and hopefully sent BM a final settlement offer. He’s very happy with the outcome over all. He’s also prepared to file for contempt as soon as she starts screwing around since he was informed that if she’s found in contempt she will have to pay the lawyer fee. So why might he already expect he will be filing for contempt.

Son is sick

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Thu, 07/20/2017 - 4:07pm

SO's 4 year old is sick. Not life threatening but BM did take him to the doctor and get him some medication.
I encouraged SO to call and talk to his son just because.
He didn't.

This is one of the hardest things. I'm not stepmom and even if I was I most likely wouldn't be able to call. BM wouldn't allow it. I ask SO to because I feel it's important. I think his son would have liked to hear from him and most of all I can't.

End of his summer

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Thu, 07/06/2017 - 8:23pm

Summer visitation is over tomorrow. I think over all it went really well. Now for the let down.

SO is always understandably upset when he has to take the kids back. I expect it to be worse since he's had them so long.

On a good note he got an email from the lawyer today about the settlement. Hopefully he'll hear back from hers soon and she agrees to his request.

First Friday

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Tue, 06/27/2017 - 8:12pm

So BM has been talking about getting the kids back a week early. Apparently grandma called to talk to the kids and was saying she'd be picking them up Friday. So SO contacted BM asking what was up.

Either won't or can't read

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Fri, 06/23/2017 - 10:37pm

Well so much for everything being calm.

BM has yet again misunderstood / refuses to read their proposed agreement on custody.

First off I understand without a court order their agreement isn't worth the paper it's printed on EXCEPT they have been using it and agreeing to it. It's been in use since the divorce and custody stuff was started in January. Hopefully it will be done soon but till then.....

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