DH told me last night that Skids told him that BM is "dating" someone new...someone they have already met, even though the ink is barely dry on her filing for divorce from husband #2 and the divorce is months from being final. Now it all makes sense as to why she was offering up Monday as an extra day for Skids to stay at our house, since today is Valentine's Day. 

It appears as though BM is getting divorced. We haven't gotten official word and probably never will, but her DH has apparently moved out. I thought something was up when the kids showed us the family Christmas portraits and he was not in them. Also, BM changed her name back to DH's last name on social media. It had been her DH's last name (although she never legally changed it to his last name). 

I have officially become a wicked stepmother. One of my SSs spends every visitation with us complaining that we don't spend enough money on him. BM has also told him how much CS DH pays and he has decided that his father doesn't pay enough. In our state, CS is determined by income and not only did BM  hide some of her income on the last calculation, but DH also agreed to pay more than he was legally required because he wanted to switch holidays. I officially hate this child. He is a teen and he is always stirring the pot on behalf of BM.

SSs have recently discovered Facebook. When they sent me friend requests, I wanted to ignore them, but figured I couldn't, so I accepted their requests. Then one SS started commenting on my posts in coherent sentences (writing is not his strong suit), so I got suspicious that perhaps BM was using his account to view my profile (she and I are not FB friends...way back when she sent me a friend request which I did not accept and that led to her making threats against me and accusing me of crazy things like "possibly being a child abuser").