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How things were done has effects now!
I am so frustrated at this point. I usually try not to engage with arguing with a 9 year old but this morning I slipped. Typically I can ignore and just move one but not this morning. I ask you excited about g-parents coming up and talking about missing a few days of the summer program and I will pull him out. He seemed a little like hesitant so I said do not worry you will not miss trips. The rest follows:
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MIL at it again lately!!!
Ok. So if you have read my stuff I have had my issues with my future in-laws. Things are great with the SIL and FIL and most of the time with the MIL. There are times she drives me absolutely bonkers, she live several states away now. Anyway this is a vent but also kind a question.
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Incorporating kid into wedding!
Hey I am looking for ideas not put downs about how I should not do it and blah blah blah. Anyway when SO and I get married we both want to incorporate SS9. Not for the whole thing but a part of it as he means a lot to both of us. He is really excited for us all to have the same last name. I want to give him a chance to be involved with the ceremony. Just nor sure what to do exactly, so I am looking for ideas. Let's face it SO and him both accepted me into their little family.
Again please just ideas of what maybe you have done or seen.
Thanks
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OT-Why can't people just move on and let things go.
So if you follow my blog you know I had a falling out with my friend and she keeps texting here and there. I do not respond to her texts. I do not plan on responding to this one.
This is what it said.
"Ya know...all this just sucks. After 16 years you couldn't remember my birthday. Like. I have an alarm set on my phone for yours. And I get it. Your dad passing away was tragic and unexpected and I have no idea what that had to have been like. But there are some day I miss you. Another I'm still pissed. And...yeah. That is all."
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First time a 9 year old really made me mad.
Last night I get home and SS9 is all excited because they had a book thing at school yesterday. He could donate and exchange them. he has so many book I said well lets donate 12 and you can exchange 3. When I come home he has 12. All I can think is something is really fishy here. I know what I wrote I know what I said and I know I explained to him why we are donating. I bought most of the books for him to read and my mom had just bought him like several brand new books too.
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Follow up to yesterday - adopting!
Thank you all the people that gave my constructive advice and were supportive.
I went home last night had a talk with SO we are going to go for legal guardianship in the next few months. We are waiting till a few things settle because we have a lot on our plate right now. I was planning on waiting a few months to begin with I just wanted some advice.
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When should we start the process of Adopting?
If you have kept up with my blog you all know I have a SS9 who lives with me and my SO full time and BM is not in the picture. We are getting married in October.(Might be legally sooner due to switching jobs and insurance.) Anyway.....
SO and I both agreed that I would like to adopt SS and make everything legal. I just want to know when I should start. Should I talk to a lawyer soon just to see what is all involved and make sure we all our ducks in a row so that one we are married the process will hopefully go smoother? Should I wait.
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How to teach a kid empathy?
Ok people I need some help and so does my SO I think we are both kinda scratching our heads not really sure what to do.
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OT-Update on crazy Friend
If you had read my previous blogs you all know I had a falling out with my friend. Well not sure if what the hell is wrong with her. She text me the day after X-Mas about how i forgot her birthday again and wished my SO and SS a Merry X-mas but not me. I ignored and did not respond.
Got another message a few days ago of her holding a ring saying someone lost it Thanksgiving Eve. I do not wear jewelry and everyone knows that. Why wait two months to say something to me and also she sent all these messages after midnight. I ignored the last one too.
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I have asked about his before but still need some help.
Hello all. I hope everyone is having a good new year and doing well.
SO and I are both still struggling some with SS9 with the talking back and arguing everything we say. For example....talking about flying and how long flight are. He chimes in and says FL is x amount of hours away. I said no it is this amount in a plane. He is like well I have flown there. You are still wrong. Well g-mom said this. Well she told you wrong. On and on and on. SO I googled flights and showed him how long it really was.