I guess I finally have an update. I never came back on here because I guess I was ashamed that I stayed in my situation. I tried everything I could think of to make things better and make them work for the kids. It eventually got to where my husband was no longer providing for them either. He wouldn't go to work. Treated us all like crap. That's when I had finally had enough, when the basics were no longer being provided for the kids, it was no longer worth trying to make it work.