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Extremely, Petty!!! I can't vent IRL...What happened after
My, EXSO and I have been over for a couple of months.... I vented about his OD 22 getting married... It was not as regal as she planned AKA it was a flop! I actually, feel bad for BM her SO of a year was not seated by her. If, I had attended , the sane would of semi happened to me ...
He,my EXSO, brought a NEW, girlfriend with him ...no, I didn't want to go, I should be happy I'm not involved in this crazy family, anymore....
SS19, Strikes, again!
I thought, I was done!!
I had the day off from babysitting. My new furniture was coming and I thought I could get my home in order.
XSO shows up. No warning. He said, he was going to get his things. He had stbSIL with him.(I can't believe SO's daughter got knocked up by such a good guy. I feel bad for him) Great!
I decided to leave the house. I didn't want to see it.
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Post split, I just want to scream! Opinions, please!
My SO moved out a month and a half ago. We were going to try living separate.
Until, the bills started rolling in he was months behind on EVERYTHING.(electric,internet,and propane;was at 0%)He refused to pay and signed off.He thinks that was a favor because now I wasnt stuck with all the back pay.He's a weird one. Anyway,I had to pay deposits and realized, I can't deal with man who would give ASK's money and not make sure home is taken care of first.I won't be the one to pay for everything and let him blow his away. He doesn't make enough for both. it is what it is..
It's been a long time since I've posted.....I need advice
Last, time I posted, I was considering SO move out but still be together.
Since, then my motor blew because dumb ass SO NEVER did the oil change he said he did!! He admitted to just adding oil. Because of that I've been carless. It was tough to decide new motor or new car. I get my car back tomorrow 
Kinda O/T How my babysitting kids remind me of some of the steps I read about on here
I have a certain family that drives me bonkers! The 2 and 3 year old are great children,it's their attire! They look like homeless little critters. I have bought them clothes,that stay at my house. (I'm now good with them) BUT....
The oldest sister is 7 and in first grade.Sweet and caring!She goes to private school and is usually in uniform. My problem is she has missed 15 days of school! (My BK's go to public school and only miss if they are on their death beds, it would be less if, I paid big bucks)
MOTY's advice to MSD(20)
MSD has had a lot of issues baby daddy,work ethic,car problems, drugs,you name it. She is nice and respectful.Sum it up if,she would of been raised up differently(actually,that goes for all 3 of them) I know she would be an amazing young lady.
She moved in with her Aunt (SO's sis)after,her break up.So, she could be in town. We live in the boonies. Aunty has no problems with her so, all is good there.
Anyways,she usually always needs something.Gas,phone card, ect. I help her because, I want to.She has always played second fiddle to her parents,OSD IS AWESOME! LMAO
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Being a widow/widower and Christmas Do the same rules apply as being a divorcee?
I've read some on here some are widowed, as well as myself and I wanted some insight.
My SO and I have been on a breaking point for some time. I'm trying disengament and it still makes me look bad. I skipped out on Christmas with his kids and stayed home getting last minute things around. My BK's went to their aunt's house with my IL's. I went there with them at Thanksgiving. It hurt SO!?!
I got bored here alone after, I got what needed done and told SO "I wish I would have went to SIL's." He got upset and said "you should of came with me"
LAT There is a blogger on here who inspired me
SO moved out not completely(garage is still full of his things) but he and SS19 are not here.
I really don't care for 2 out 3 of his darlings. I have three of my own and I'm sure he gets annoyed as well;hell I do and their mine,BUT I correct them! He also,has the right to make mine mind.I don't have that luxury with his and they are adults.
Our views on parenting and other things are different.We are also at different stages/ kid ages.
We do have fun together and truly love and care for one another.
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Moving day!?!?
For the longest time, I have been bitching and moaning. SO is finally moving out. He told me last night. He, also asked if his s19 and dog could stay! WTF! NO!!!!
I would keep the dog before the son!!!! My BK's want the dog, because he is neglected by SO. Its sad. The only reason the dog is annoying is because S19 has taken over his "area".
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I can't stand "needing" him!
My bio kids and I celebrated Thanksgiving with their aunt yesterday. It was a long day and we ate at 3. So, at 9 p.m. we were getting hungry we ordered a pizza, it was dark and wet, I didn't have my glasses on, and I went into a ditch.
I wasn't far from home so, I walked to my house. I called a tow truck and "SO". He told me to cancel the tow he could do it for free.
He did not get here till 30 minutes later. The tow company still charge me $55. He got here and I called the cops unfortunately, the cop and the tow that I had canceled were already there.
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