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PALEASE tell me I'm not overreacting

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SO accepted a 20 year old girls friend request on fb this week. His defense is that is was SS20's ex junkie gf and she probably just wants to keep tabs on him (SS20 since hes in the hospital). Um...inappropriate much?! He's literally sitting here laughing at me saying I'm making something out of nothing and overreacting... if its nothing and she's no one, one, why are you even friends with her? And two, why are you defending your friendship with her to me so much??

SS20 has overdosed again...part 3

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I'm happy he's doing better. Honestly. I would never wish hurt or harm on SS20, especially because it would in turn, hurt SO. But I am having a REALLY hard time being the least bit sympathetic at this point.

Yes, he is in a great deal of pain. Yes he almost died. I get that. But he did this to himself!! I feel like everyone is just SO happy he's not dead that they're forgetting he overdosed AGAIN! For the 5th time that we know of! This wasn't some freak accident, or someone else's doing. HE DID THIS TO HIMSELF!

SS20 has overdosed again...part 2

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So SS20 has pulled through his coma. He's still very out of it but last night his kidneys started functioning on their own and they took out his breathing tube. THANK GOD. However he has a SERIOUS road to recovery as he has developed rhabdomyolysis and compartment syndrome because who knows how long he was out before he was found. He went into surgery this morning to relieve some of the pressure on his arm and they had to cut from his pec to his wrist and a huge part of his trap.

SS20 has overdosed again...

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... he is in a coma with a breathing tube and I'm just at a loss as for what to do or say. I'm feeling guilty about wanting SO to be harder on him ... but this was what I was trying to prevent all this time. It will kill SO if SS does not wake up... and I just don't know what to do. I want to be there at the hospital with him. I feel like I should, instead of sitting here unable to concentrate on ANYTHING and anxiously awaiting every text ... we have other children and I have to be home with them, but I need him to feel my support and love and I just don't know how from here.

want to stop at SS13 flag football on our way to lunch?

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That was DH's legit question. FUCK NO was my legit answer, but it seemed to really shock him.

Really? Really DH? Do I REALLY want to go support spoiled little SS13 at his, what was that, FLAG FOOTBALL (what a joke) game?! FUCK NO. I just spent the last 6 months going to a$$hole SS13's indoor, outdoor, and all star football AND I've just spent the last MONTH dealing with your bratty ass kids straight because BM was in rehab and I FINALLY have a completely kid free weekend and you want me to go sit a few seats down from BM in the 40° weather!?

F*CK my feelings though, right?

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Wanting privacy, respect, and kindness is not an outrageous request. I mean call me F*ING crazy, but the way I was brought up it was EXPECTED.

If you are a CHILD and you can see 2 adults having a F*ING conversation and they did not invite you into it, MIND YOUR 12 YEAR OLD BUSINESS! You like to be able to go into your room and close the door and know no one is going to bother you? GOOD! Stay the F*CK out of my room. ESPECIALLY when the door is closed. You want me to be nice to you and do nice things for/with you?? Show me the SAME DAMN COURTESY!

why can't you just HELP me blend!?

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I'm having a hard time with this one ... my SO has turned me into a clingy, overbearing nag... or at least that's how he's making me feel.

I have 2 boys, 5 and 7 1/2. We moved in with my SO last year, So we see him every day, yes. He drives to see his kids SS13 and SD12 every Tuesday and Thursday to take them to dinner, sports, etc and then hangs out at their house until BM comes home. Also every other Friday, Saturday, and Sunday they stay here with us (although they've been here every weekend for 4 weeks ugh kill me).

Here's my issue ...

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