So last night, after SD15 arrives and dinner is being considered between them, DH starts talking to her like she's 5. Seriously I could not handle it. Then he starts asking me silly questions like I'm in on it. WTF? I answered him normally, he countered (because God forbid I have an opinion when SD is here), so I said, ok then never mind and I opted out.

She's now refusing to take her mask off in our home, when it's just the three of us.
DH apparently talked with her last night about it, told me he'll tell me details later but basically:
Treat it like her shaving her head or dying her hair back, this is a rebellion thing and "she's out there, like she's nuts. Just ignore her."
Hookay then. I always said she was going to take this thing to the extreme....also overheard her tell DH that she could NOT get together with her friends, even distanced.

Glad I'm already disengaged.

YSD15 has been using it almost every day.  Sometimes in a break in her school day and usually always after her online classes get out.  Unfortunately DH has mixed feelings because they aren't going for watks or a bike ride as often (you know, because he cannot insist on anything)...but that's not my problem.

You guys, OMG.  It happened AGAIN.

It was ok after DH addressed it before, another visit with no issues, now full on BACK to it.

I went in there because DH was in the upstairs bathroom - viola.  I had it out with him this morning, told him that unless he WANTS me to DEAL with it and fix it immediatly he do it ASAP. He quickly said he'll handle it this once.  OH, REALLY?  "DH this is not the first time, but the second and I'm done with it. Either you handle it or that's it, I will and I don't care becuase she's 15 and this should.not.be.happening.at.all.period."

FFS