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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Mon, 10/27/2014 - 11:54am

FH got online, like he does every Sunday to call Sd3 on oovoo. It's 9am our time, 7pm SD3 time. He's calling SD3. No answer. Call again. No answer. He checks his email. No status if they were going to be late. He emails BM and asked what's going on. It's 9:20am...still nothing. FH starts getting worried that something may have happened to SD3. Finally, BM replies. She said "it's 6 o'clock here, daylights savings started". FH replies and said "it would've been nice of you to let me know". BM replies "it's not my responsibility".

Question from my FH to you all

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Wed, 10/01/2014 - 1:22pm

SD3 is in Germany with her mom. FH gets to talk to SD3 online. BMH was deployed for a few months and now he's back...and now SD3 is back to calling him daddy and FH "daddy (first name )". FH wants your opinion on how to handle this and for any vid points he could tell BM why that's not ok. I've already shared my thoughts with him. I basically see it as very disrespectful for BM and BMH to encourage it. There is one mom and one dad. It's already hard enough for FH to speak to SD3. She's constantly looking at the corner with her eyes while she talks to FH.

My sister needs help

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Sat, 07/12/2014 - 1:35am

I'm going to have her write a blog and I would really like for you all give her advice. She really needs it. I can barely talk to her about anything. Everything usually goes back to her problems with her SO daughter who is 12. I try to give her advice, but I've never been in her shoes. My SD is only 3. Thanks everyone

OT: I want to help my brother but idk how

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Thu, 05/29/2014 - 11:25pm

There are 4 kids in my family. We all have kids and have a partner. My oldest brother has been single for years. The last girl he was with he met on a dating site. That was..hmm 3years ago? I was told that she broke up with him because he doesn't communicate. I can totally see that. My brother is so chill. He's the guy that will sit with the crowd, laugh along a say a few things here and there, but he's pretty quiet. He's not lucky with a lot of things. If you say "where do you want to eat?" He would say "I don't care, doesn't matter".

Anyone's SO have shared custody with skids, but it's every few months? Need advice

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Wed, 05/14/2014 - 11:56am

FH and BM share custody of SD3. FH gets six months and BM gets 6. SD2 is leaving soon to be with her mother and stepdad again soon back to Germany. This will be Sd3 second time she's leaving FH. The first time was hard but since she was only 2 she wasn't so expressive and didn't know what was going on. Now she's 3 and talks a lot! She's back and forth a lot about how she feels. She says she wants to live with FH and now she wants to go back to BM. I told FH not to take it personally. Children are selfish. They want what they want.

BMH no longer daddy??

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Fri, 03/14/2014 - 3:46pm

So...this is some good news. BMH is deployed so BM had two online sessions with SD alone. The most recent one, BM referred her husband as "daddy (first name". WOW! So thing is good, but I can't help to wonder what changed her mind. It's hard to believe that she realized what her and her husband were doing was wrong. So it's hard to take it as it is. I haven't really asked FH what he thought of it. He was suppose to email her about it, but of course, never did. So I guess there's no reason now to bring it up.

I think our SO/ DH/FH taste is questionable

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Thu, 03/13/2014 - 11:01pm

So there was a blog by..nena123 (I think) asking what do our BMs look like physically. Some didn't sound very appealing and some stalkers said their BMs were actually good looking. So just trusting that everyone was being honest and not being haters. What was our men thinking? How is it that they went from BM to us?!

Confronting BM, maybe FH shouldn't??

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Fri, 02/28/2014 - 12:04pm

I've read other blogs that had to deal with confronting their BMs behavior and most opinions are stating that bringing things up to these BMs will make things worse. If no one says anything to them who will? Is it a situation where someone from BMs side needs to give them a reality check? You know how people see things clearer when someone looking in gives their opinion. Should it always be like that? I don't want BM to think she can do whatever she wants. So if FH doesn't tell BM what she's doing is wrong and hurts, does he just let her continue?

Daddy, daddy, real daddy, step daddy bullshit

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Submitted by stuckinthebay on Wed, 02/26/2014 - 9:42pm

BM and BMH push so hard with this daddy bullshit. BMH still calls himself daddy and BM has to always remind SD3 who her daddy is. No BM, your husband is not her daddy. Just like I'm not her mommy. You guys taught her very well that I'm not mommy. This pisses FH off. He has to hear them when SD3 talks to them online. SD3 doesn't want to talk to them much either still.

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