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SD5 says her last name is BMH's...still

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We freaking dealt with this her last stay 6 months ago. She was with us and was telling us her name name was BMHs. H brought it up to BM and she said "oh we never told SD her last name was different". Fucking liars. I thought this was done with. 6months back at BMs, SD5 is still telling us that's her name and she was very adamant about it. This is how it came up..

No insurance, run around, excuses Bullshit

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We land in London and BM and BMH are to meet us at our hotel. They are two hours late (late as usual). BM informs H that SD4 Has been complaining about her teeth. BM said she's been giving her medicine, but thinks SD4 just says her teeth hurts for the medicine. BM did not give us anything for the plane ride knowing this information. SD4 doesn't complain about her teeth that night, but we have a flight out the next day in the afternoon. As we are at the airport SD4 complains her tooth hurts. We both examined her teeth and couldn't physically see anything.

SD5 thinks she's grown

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So we got SD5 and we've had her for 37 days. Man, she is something else. She acts like she's freaking grown. Rolling her eyes, moaning and groaning, showing her tongue, acting like she doesn't care, talking back. The list goes on. I hate that we have to correct her every time she comes back to us. It's fucking bullshit. It's clear this shit is allowed in her moms household cuz if if wasn't, she wouldn't be that way.

I really need quick advice

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H and I bought our plane tickets to go overseas to pick up sd4. We had a 4 hour layover in Paris then an over night stay in London. Everything was good. We were feeling good to go together. This would've been my first time flying overseas to get SD4. The first time was when H had to go to Germany. BM and BH always have this presence of being jerks to H. Well days later after we bought our tickets, the terrorist attacks happened in Paris. I was terrified! As the week passed, I was feeling better about going. Then I read the news about more Potential attacks on Americans traveling overseas.

My marriage, not your business BM

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H, BM and BMH were going back and forth on an email. BM said in her email

"Also, one thing that I need to point out - don't use SD4 as your messenger, even if it is subtle. The first time I heard about you remarrying was from SD4. That is information that must come from you, not her. That is even broken down towards the end of our parenting plan. With that said, you will need to someday tell me what your future plans are now that you two are married."

BMH has some balls

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Recap: SD4 is in H care for 6 months, then goes back to her mom for 6 months. While in his care, SD4 oovoos with her mom twice a week. BM is in Germany so they are a day ahead. We all went to my sisters for the weekend. It was Saturday our time, Sunday BMs time which was also Mother's Day. H prepped SD4 as usual they days when she needs to talk to BM. Before BM and BMH called to skype, H even reminded SD4 it was Mother's Day in Germany. He put her on a quiet room like usual and we all left her alone. What happened after that was out of our hands. SD4 came out of the room a couple Of times.

WHOA! Were one of you stalkers on dr. Phil??!

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Seems coincidental. Did someone post this already? I've been gone for months. Anyways I remember reading a story on here about a SM play fighting with there skid and bit him Cuz the skid bit her first. DFS was called by BM and an investigation began. Idk what happened after that, but inwas catching up on dr Phil and the same situation happened with this family!

FH now has SD3 in his care and she is singing like a bird (full blog)

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It was truly bitter sweet for FH. He flew to another state to pick up SD3 for her 6month visitation with him. Prior to that things were getting all crazy with FH and BM. Catching her is little lies and then BM didn't hang up the phone and FH heard BMs MIL talking shit.

FH now has SD3 in his care and she is singing like a bird

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It was truly bitter sweet for FH. He flew to another state to pick up SD3 for her 6month visitation with him. Prior to that things were getting all crazy with FH and BM. Catching her is little lies and then BM didn't hang up the phone and FH heard BMs MIL talking shit.

Anyways, FH, BM and BMH all meet at FH hotel for the drop off. They were super late (of course). SD3 was so happy to see FH that she cried

FH now has SD3 in his care and she is singing like a bird

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It was truly bitter sweet for FH. He flew to another state to pick up SD3 for her 6month visitation with him. Prior to that things were getting all crazy with FH and BM. Catching her is little lies and then BM didn't hang up the phone and FH heard BMs MIL talking shit.

Anyways, FH, BM and BMH all meet at FH hotel for the drop off. They were super late (of course). SD3 was so happy to see FH that she cried

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