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How owning a Cockatoo bird with DH is like raising a newborn together- DISASTER

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DH and I do not plan on having kids together. Main reasons- he had a vasectomy 15 years ago and I would not want to get it reversed and then it never work out. I think the anticipation every month would be awful. Plus his kids are older, my BS is older. Doesn't really make sense to start over.

How were you as a teenager?

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Okay so we are always bitching on here about what a bunch of morons our teenage skids are.

I know I can be totally judgemental about some of the stuff the skids do, even though I did somewhat similar things. I guess with age you just get to see how stupid it is. LOL.

So I'm curious as a teenager did you do any of the following:

Anyone watch Dr Phil yesterday? TOPIC: Alienating mom or absent dad

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It was a really good show. I think Dr Phil had it figured out who the problem was- which was the mom and her mom.

I will say I do feel a little sorry for her. Sounds like the dad did leave her pretty unexpected (in her eyes) and the pressure of taking care of a handicapped child. I can understand to an extent where some of her anger comes from. But I dont agree with how she is behaving.

Hopefully the link below will take you to the page if you are interested.

$10 at McDonalds for 1 person- YSD

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DH had YSD the other day and they drove through McD's.

She ordered- 10 piece chicken mcnugget meal- up sized, Frappe, double cheeseburger.

:jawdrop:

All for herself. No one else. All for her.

WTH

I dont even spend $10 for both me and BS8 when we are getting McD's.

Actually it's quite possible that she was ordering extra to bring back to BM as BM has asked the skids in the past to do this.

As in "If your dad takes you to eat before you come home, order extra and bring them home to me".

Was there a single incident that caused you to not like your skids- or your feelings to change for them or was it over time?

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I'm just curious as to how you came to the point (if you did) that you do not like your skid and that there are issues.

OSD21- I havent spent much time with her. But 90% of my interactions with her have left me like :? WTH. She is most like BM... soooooo..... We had a big blow up almost 2 years ago which really sealed the deal on us ever having a relationship. Which is fine because before that I thought she was rude and selfish and bitchy.

Is this rude? Speaking as a BM...

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My Ex and I have a decent relationship. We are cordial. I dont have to deal with him often, so it makes it easier for us to get along.

His mother- I am still friendly with. We are friends on FB. Since BS is with me majority of the time it allows her to see pics of BS and see how he is doing. It is her only grandchild. Sometimes she will call to talk to BS and her and I will conversate for a bit.

She was very supportive of me throughout my horrible relationship with Ex. I have no reason to hate this woman or be mean to her.

How to have a relationship with the inlaws when you hate the skids.

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Is it even possible?

DH has 4 sisters and a brother. One sister I have not met. Most of his siblings are younger then him by 10-19 years. So their ages are closer to the skids then to DH.

We were recently on vacation and saw SIL who is 22. She is married and just had a baby. I was just SO IRKED anytime she talked about the skids or brought up the skids. Even her husband brought up BM's brother. Just in general in a story about him owning a car shop and he knows him and he didnt know it was DH's ex's brother. I was just ANNOYED.

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