Can anyone recommend a good DNA,Family Tree kit?

DH does not know who his biological father is. There was a man who supposedly was his bio father but a DNA test was done when DH turned 18 and he said all he remembers of it is the man calling him and telling him he is not his kid and hanging up.

DH's mom was a lady of the streets to put it kindly. She had DH when she was 16, pregnant at 15 and was the black sheep of her family. DH has 5 siblings and my guess is that none of them have the same father and will never know who their father is.

DH and I have been having a rough 6 months or so. I need to find the best way to bring up the issues and get him to listen. When I try to talk to DH about how I am feeling he just hears nagging.

In the past I would write letters, long texts and try to talk to him and really press for communication. Over time I realized I only end up frustrated by the lack of response I get from him so I just tend to not address issues with him because I feel it's pointless.

I am very independent and very busy so we both have no problem ignoring each other for days.

What are the important things that you think that kids should know to make them responsible and successful adults?

What can we start teaching them NOW to ensure that when they are about to fly they coop they can and will and they will be successful.

Advice, wisdom, actual things they should learn and know, etc.

Are there any statements that your SO said, or even the skids that you now think back on and think I really should have paid more attention to those statements? }:)

Ya know how one thing reminds you of something that reminds you of something else and so on. Just got me thinking about some things that have been said over the course of almost 7 year with DH that at the time didn't seem like anything but now I'm like...hmmmm... makes total sense now.