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Absolutely crushed (O/T)

3LittleDragonflies's picture

I got a message from SMIL's son earlier asking us not to visit SMIL & FIL for Thanksgiving. (We were planning to go to surprise FIL. SMIL knew)
I went off. He hurt my mom. He hurt my baby sisters. I told him to stay the hell away from my family.
DH called SMIL to let her know... and found out the FUCKING MONSTER THAT MOLESTED MY BABY SISTER IS LIVING WITH THEM!
WTF!
SMIL wasn't going to even tell us. I guess we were going to drive 24 FUCKING HOURS round trip to visit them just to discover that PIECE OF SHIT was there too! NOT FUCKING HAPPENING.
I'm crushed. I've been talking to SMIL EVERY DAY to try to cheer her up because of how he acted! SHE NEVER mentioned he was living there. FIL NEVER mentioned that he was living there when he talked to DH EVERY DAY!

Can I trust NO ONE?! WTF is wrong with people?! (more back story at this blog: http://www.steptalk.org/node/170920 )

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3LittleDragonflies's picture

I just feel like EVERYONE I ever thought I could trust is suddenly turning into horrible people. I don't have anyone in my family anymore. I don't have anyone in DH's family now... I'm one of those people that family is everything. All of my babies grandparents are getting cut out, all their aunts and uncles. I literally feel like I can't breathe. I TRUSTED them. I LOVED them.
Seriously:
MY mom: Alcoholic with Narcissitic Personality Disorder
DH's mom: Money hungry, favorite playing, child neglecting bitch
DH's Dad and Stepmom: Liars and enablers

I have NO parents left. DH and my friends have been dropping like flies... Sad

Unfreakingreal's picture

DNA makes you related, it doesn't make people family.
Make a new family with likeminded couples with similar aged children. Embrace that and make them family.