So, my exh's girlfriend moved in with him. His last one was a nightmare, calling me and asking personal questions about him and why we divorced. He has a baby with her and she's refusing him visitation because she doesn't want "her daughter around a new person", lol. I told DH that I think I'll tell the new girlfriend about this site as she'll need it to deal with that crazy BM.

This one seems nice and I am so relieved. He had the kids this past weekend and so I wanted to meet her. I went to the house and she seems very friendly, we didn't chat to long as it's awkward but the kids tell me that she made cookies with them and they helped her decorate for Halloween.

I did tell my kids BS11 and BD7 that if they treat this new girlfriend like SD12 treats me their father will punish them and when they get home I will too. They are to respect her and if there is a problem they are to bring it up with their father to deal with instead of just being little hellions.
I wish BM was more like me!