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It All Happens At Once

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My father called me this past Tuesday on the way to Buffalo to state that my mom is basically in hospice and is refusing all liquids, food and medication.   I am helping out DIL with DGD2 over in Buffalo.  My parents live in Maine, their choice of early retirement location from upstate NY.

There Should Be An Eye Bleach Filter

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On social media.   YSS (stb 21 and STILL on CS) just bragged that he spent one hour at the gym after his 12 hour shift at work and did a flex pose.

The only thing showing is his man boobs and gut!  The trainer in the foreground  is making a strange face trying to tolerate the whole thing-- or possibly not laugh.

He does look good in orange though since his hair is pumpkin light orange.

Bad

Had an Actual NIGHTMARE!

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I guess it was triggered by getting a safe deposit box at the bank to store my important papers and talk of CS ending. 

I dreamed that Chef had a reunion with his over decade long PASed out now adult skids--all three of them--and he folded like a cheap suit.  He showed up in a king cab pickup with OSS, YSS in the back and SD vying, as usual, to ride shotgun next to Dadddeeeeee. 

Kudos To Military Families

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The sacrifices they make are incredible.   My DS, Awesomeson, will be deploying for 6 months to the Middle East and will be leaving behind his DW and 2 yr old DD.

I will be helping out by babysitting once a week.  Its a 2 hr drive one way so it will be an overnight stay for me.   Which will be a needed rest away from Chef!

Again, I greatly admire the military families!

 

Fourteen Years Ago Today

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The last of Chef's three ferals PASed out over a (delicious) homecooked meal.  The culmination of scorched earth, take no prisoners,  guerilla warfare PAS tactics on the part of the Girhippo and Clan.   There was zero backing for co-parenting and parallel parenting was almost impossible due to Chef voluntarily giving the Girhippo all the power.

Finally there was a modicum of peace after 5 years of intense shelling and mortaring of alienation bombs.  At this point YSS (the HousesHitter stb 7) was out of control and had huge behavioral problems due to the 24/7 brainwashing.

Still With The Industrial Strength Turd Polishing!

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So I showed Chef the recent photo of The Animal Torturer (PASed out SD stb 25) with her new BF living it up with Pumpkinhead (PASed out stb 27) with his victim, errrrr, I mean wife living large.   

Side note:  Even though I worked two jobs I don't remember having gone on a real vacation until I was in my mid thirties.

Anyway, Chef came up with "well at least my kids have nice teeth."   Ummm they OUGHT to since the Girhippo slapped then in middle class status braces the second they turned eight. 

OSS stb 27 Has Rejoined a Band

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Backstory:  this was the skid (Pumpkinhead) who was sent to Camp ROC Star every year by the Girhippo until he aged out and was told he was going to be a rock star as a vocation by the Girhippo and her clan.

He ended up working in a low rent grocery store (same one as AlmostGone's Little Idiot)  and now has some sort of greeter office job for the local Arc.   He did get married and buy a house about 20 minutes away from us but of course he still remains completely alienated due to scorched earth PAS.

The Animal Torturer has a New BF

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SD (stb 25) has a new boyfriend.  Seems they are living a life of Riley going on camping trips and outings in conjunction with Pumpkinhead OSS stb 27 and his wife.  

There is no visible means of support/employment, however you would never know either of them are working and are probably living the Little Idiot lifestyle.  New BF goes on incessant fishing trips and once attended Alfred State University.

As always I don't see this lasting very long--after all who is going to pay the bills?

Gave advice

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To neighbor lady next door to one of our rehabs.  She is thinking of moving in with her BF and renting out her house.  I advised AGAINST it!  She is late fifties, semi retired, divorced with grown kids and has been a SM before although not mega drama like most of us have here.   Her BF is late sixties, retired and has grown children as well.   Not sure if he is widowed or divorced.   They seem total opposites.  He is more old fashioned and she seems very independent. 

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