Hey ladies, was wondering if you guys had any advice on when to tell SS10 that Im pregnant. DH wants to tell him when we have him next over Labor Day weekend but at that point I will only be about 8 weeks along and am hesitant to tell him in case anything were to happen. This is my first and Im a little scared of having a miscarriage or something going wrong. If we dont tell him then though we wont see him until the end of October and DH doesnt want to wait that long since I should be showing then. He wants to tell him in person and not over the phone or webcam.

So my BF is considering representing himself in the current full custody battle that he has going on with BM. They have been in court for over a year, lawyers fees are getting up to about $10,000 not including the GAL fees and now a psych eval that needs to be done. That has a starting retainer of $1800 and "could be more". We can not afford to keep spending this kind of money, especially given the current economy crisis. Has anyone gone this route and had any success with it? We were told that in 90% of cases the judge will use the psych's recommendation.