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Full Time SM Duty SUCKS

I am so damn sick and tired of being a full-time SM, YET....I'm never allowed to provide my input or my opinion on how SD13 should be raised. BM has not seen nor spoken to SD since 2012 so I'm it.

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Don't "Real" Moms do Real Things?

For Full-Time Steps....What do you all do when your skids refer to BM/BF as the real mom, or the real dad?

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SD's Sudden Interest in Baths?

SD12--will be 13 next week--has always loved to be filthy dirty. She is most comfortable with clutter, garbage, dust, dirt, etc.

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Can't be Coincidence

So lately I've noticed that on the days DH argues with me...the very next morning, SD12 will leave milk spilled on the table or crumbs & peanut butter on the counters.

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Even Though the Light at the End is Far....

SD's days are still numbered, even if it is painfully far away...
1,870 days until SD is 18. LOL

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Do You Monitor Minor Kids' Social Media?

Does anyone monitor kids/skids email or social media accounts? It seems like all the access to social media is more responsibility than kids can handle these days.

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Spending more money on SD for school

I cannot help but hate the whole back-to-school shopping for SD12. She has lived with us full-time for half her life while BM has done absolutely nothing for her.

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Always Awkward When it Comes to SD

SD13 lives here full time and it STILL feels awkward and uncomfortable every singe time she shows her face.

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Sleep Talking

My SD12 has talked in her sleep off and on since the day I met her when she was 4 yrs old. During the first 4 yrs of her life, DH would get phone calls from BM telling him SD has night terrors.

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Another DuH Moment

Every day after school, SD12 will sit in her room supposedly doing homework for hours. The only time she comes out is for dinner.