Ive never done this before but wanted to for years, heres my story.

I finally met the man of my dreams, he has a son with his ex 2.5yrs old and he is a full-time dad to her other boy of 5.5. The mother was abusive, drug user, using them for dole money... she has another kid now with another father (which lives with her mum). The kids saw there mum to start off with on a more regular basis and for longer times. She didn't make mine and my now husbands life easy and one of the kids was persuaded not to like me much. we got through all that.