Im so glad I found this site, Ive been needing something like this. Ive dealt with my Husbands ex-wife for far too long. This is absolutely, the hardest thing i have ever done in my life. This is my first time being a Step-Parent, and dealing with an Ex. Im also an Ex-Wife, but I get along great with my ex husbands wife, she is awesome, and she loves my kids. I got really lucky in that aspect. I also respect her, for what she does. Thats something I dont get from my husbands ex. She doesnt see me as a good person or a great step mom, she sees me as an enemy. Now I see her as the same.