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BM trying to get with MY SO ? Just me?

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When SO started dating we did not want anything serious at all. He was a guy with four kids and I had just gotten out of a marriage. We agreed together that I would not meet his children for a long time. Eventually we both fell hard for each other. We don't always decide who we love. Let me just say if my feelings for him were not strong, real and true I would have been gone a long time ago.

Thoughts on crazy BM would be helpful. Just me or crazy?

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BM has always been crazy. Has always tried to get SO back. From day one she found out about me. Telling him it was hard to see him so happy when she still loved him. Then why after he purposes to you ( over a text message cuz you pressured him cuz you were insecure and jeliois and accusing him of cheating ) did you cheat on him and get knocked up and not know who the BF was. She has tried to befriend me only to put me down and be rude to me. I tried to take the high rode many times for too long. I told him to tell her to stop or I was gone. Her or me.

BM- Unlawful Entery into MY HOME- Cops called on BM

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OMG... I am soo upset right now. So here is how it started. BM calls SO today and said " I was running late and forgot to put SD3's glasses on her face so I will drop them off at your house later" first off really, you forgot to put her glasses on, she is old enough to remember them herself too because she has had them forever.

finally a break

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Since May this is SO and my first day with out kids. Just wanted to say yeah.... even though bm tried to destroy that by sticking us with SD3 because she was " trying to make up the time " when she called the cops and had SD taken away and other days she withheld visitation. Well come to find out she has a new bf, oh and she is trying to turn a new leaf.... yeah right bm.

BM is going down hill from here.

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Found out today that not only did BM lie to us about where she was going to be moving too but that she moved into a more expensive place. She is supposed to be getting state assistance but it won't start for three months and they won't back date it. She is going to have to come up with $700 for rent for the next few months. She has gotten her cell phone shut off and her internet. She also had the nerve to go and buy $300 passes for her and SD3 to the local water park for the summer and spends every day out there.

file contempt charges or wait

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SO has had his attorney draw up contempt charges on bm but the attorney won't file them until he is all paid up in fees. Since then bm has denied visitation again and did only five SD3 to him after he called the cops. Also she took her out of her old daycare because she said it was going to be closer to her new apartment and this daycare required SD to be there 42 hrs a week because bm is on state assistance and any hours less she has to pay the difference trying to limit SO time with SD.

Ideas on cheep dinners; saving money

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SO and I are finding out that we are not able to eat like we want to eat when the Skids are here. We like to eat at nicer places but simply can't afford to do it with 6 people. We are going to start to work on paying off more bills and was wondering what type of advice people would be able to offer on cutting down on the food bill and what types of meals people like to prepare for cheep. Thank you for your input.

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