SS10's b'day happens to be my due date. SS10 has been excited about this since finding out. I've been a week overdue with my previous pregnancies so thinking the same with this one. DH's weekend is with SS10 on his birthday and we've planned a party. Socially distanced but lots of games and fun. SS10 has been looking forward to it, he's been looking up gifts online the last 2 times He's been here, for hours lol. He damn well knows when his party is.
Today we posted a Baby Pool through our company page. The post says the baby is due on SS10's b'day.
BM texts DH saying SS10 asked if he was with her this year for his birthday because he was with us last year. SS10 knows he's with us, he's excited. There's no fucking way he said that to her, there's no way he would want to miss his party and possibly the baby being born. She saw the post and doesn't want to increase the likelihood that SS10 is here when the baby arrives, because he has been with the other babies and of course goes back to her all excited about his new baby sibling and she can't stand him being happy here. Oh ya, and last year SS10 was with us on his birthday but it was the first time since he turned 1 (she didn't even want him on his 1st b'day).
DH just texted back saying that SS10 must've forgotten it was his party that weekend and maybe they can switch next year.
I said uh no, we can switch in 8 years ha ha ha.
Anyway. What a bitch. Rant over.