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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Sun, 10/02/2011 - 11:25pm

My divorce will be final Nov 7 th and while I am SO happy to be done with DH and his crotch droppings I am still somewhat resentful about the way it all went down.

I was talking to a friend who is a male and in his 50s. He is from Greece and moved to this country about 15 years ago. He is not the kind of man I would EVER date or be involved with. ( he is friends with my neighbors whom I love, and was over at their home for a birthday party)

I'm having an affair with a man in BMs town....

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Mon, 04/25/2011 - 4:05pm

I work from home. With the exception of checking on my employees and going to the warehouse I am pretty much home all the time.

I love to clean and cook almost every night. I am a very " homey" type person. I would rather be at home decorating or reading or playing with my dogs than shopping at the mall and being on the go. I've always been that way.

Anyway, Friday i was pretty much home all day.....cleaned the pool, washed the cars, etc.....I went to my therapist at 4 pm

Court mandated parenting class.

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Thu, 04/21/2011 - 12:06pm

In Texas when a couple gets divorced the court mandates they go to a 3 hour parenting class before the divorce is final.

BMs sister and her DH are divorcing. Her husband still talks to my DH. He called DH to tell him something I find hilarious !!

BMs sister paid their other sister 40 dollars and SHE attended the parenting class!!! WTH ?????

Classic= she couldn't attend because she had.....wait for it....a DATE!!!

OMG!!! I really hope the judge bashes her.

Obviously, craziness runs in the family.

Is it probable to get pregnant at 45??

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 3:23pm

I ask because this woman tried to friend me through facebook ( I rarely log on my FB acct) anyway, I had no idea who she was....I looked on her wall and then pics to see who she was....and who do I see in a pic with her ??? BM!! And pic was from last Friday at a bar with a mechanical bull!!! Lol

She looked like she gained 30 to 40 pounds since the end of summer....could she be pregnant??? Oh, I hope so ....maybe she will stop obsessing over us. She is 45

Ps it looked like she had a maternity dress on too in the pic

Advice needed about SS15.....any other options????

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Sun, 04/03/2011 - 11:18am

We have had no contact with Ss15 since oct when he called me a " Fu***** cunt" for not adding a data plan on his cell phone and calling my 15 bd a dirty whore for not loaning him 30 dollars.

This all happened in one weekend. I told dh he was not to come back to the home. We have not heard a word from him...no apology, phone call, nothing.

So this morning dh gets a text from bm " you won't get ss12 for summer days without taking ss15 too."

Dh then explains to me he wants ss12 so maybe we should allow ss15 to come back.

I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Sat, 04/02/2011 - 7:22pm

So ss12 has a conversation with Dh about the sd's ( I'm sure BM put him up to it.

Ok we have had no contact with sd 21 or sd 18 since the older one stopped receiving 800 a month from us and since ss 18 expected me to contribute financially to her graduation party, but it clear I was not invited to the graduation itself.

Not keeping SS12 during the summer.....I'll go on a summer long vacation first.

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Sat, 03/26/2011 - 5:38pm

BEFORE Dh and I were married, I established clear boundaries that unless he was taking off work or using vacation time, I would not keep skids during summers ( I work from home). Although his divorce gives him the right to keep them 6 weeks out of the summer. As I gently explained BEFORE we were married the agreement you made with BM was just that.....between you and BM and I don't do babysitting.

So it has never been a problem until now.....he is suppose to let BM know my April 1st the date he wants skids....usually he just gets them one week and takes off work to do it.

I will mail free copy of Stepmonster to the first person who PMs me.......MIL bought me another copy......update .....it's gonew

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Submitted by Hatecopycats on Sat, 03/19/2011 - 8:56am

First one who PMs me I'll mail my one copy of step monster to you for free......enclose your address and I'll mail it out Monday

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