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Need a reality check

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I just had a typical crazy night with my DH & decided to log on here to get a reality check. (This is extremely personal & graphic, but it's not the kind of thing I can admit happened to someone who actually knows me-I would be mortified if anyone knew what my husband was really like)I have not been on this site for a very long time...looking at my old posts, realizing that things have really not improved at all, I have just grown to care a little less about most of the issues in our houshold. We've been married five years now. One thing that has changed is my husband.

Psycho Bio mom was put in her place by the school!

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They did exactly what I have been trying to tell DH to do for years!! They drew the line-since the kid's school did (what I would describe) as an "intervention", she has stopped calling our house! I am amazed. She actually listened to them. I think it helped that they typed up notes on the meeting & sent it home with SD. I think she needed that to solidify in her mind, what was agreed upon (she is not to go into the school when dropping off the kids) and that DH will let the kids initiate the phone calls when it is appropriate. WOW! I am amazed that they did that.

outsider in my own home

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I am so happy to find this site. I am new to this sort of thing, so forgive me as I fumble through this! My stepdaughter has my husband wrapped around her little finger! The other day, my husband called me sweetheart, and she said "I don't want you calling her that, that is my name!" He ran to her apologizing, saying "I am so sorry, I won't call her that anymore!".