Stepmother to a horrible, spoiled, lying, manipulate 28 stepdaughter and bio mother to a responsible, educated, hardworking, kind, thoughtful 28 yr. old daughter. My husband has alot of guilt about not being around when his daughter was growing up and he refuses to ever say no, or anything else except exactly what she wants to hear. Her life is a mess, she just can't get it together and I think he is doing her a grave injustice by his unending enabling.