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usa

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ny

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im 44 i've only married for 1 year ,been with him for four years
i have 3 three kids 29, 22,18...one sd 11 (his)im a clerk at a local college.and very unhappy.been in my home for 3 years which is mine.
problem? his child acts like she the wife at parties and at home and vacations.when my husband left to iraq for 18 months she liked me and we did alot of things together me and her bm get along no problem there.but when he came back about two years ago ..everthing change for the worst...i've done everything i was suppose to do...and still no process..i;ve been reading everyone one blog for sometime now,and see my self in every blog as far as sd problems...what its has come to is i've ask my husband to find a place of his own so that he can devoted all is love and attenion on this child...for i can't take it anymore the sleeping problems we have the tanrums and the spoied brat child that she is ...my sex life with my husband doesnt happen anymore beacause she first was always in my bed at nite ...so i said something about ...so now he has to go with her to her room and stay there until she falls alseep and me always on the outside...but now i wont have my husband at for now cause i just can't take anymore...feeling guilty and that some peace will come to my home again ...i love him and his child but she wont let me in ...she won ...not sure what going to happen now ...but for now we are sepatred but together ....don't know... as he said she comes first ...its hurts...what do do? nettie

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