Teenage Stepchildren

17 SD and 16 SS both use DH so BADLY that it drives me insane. And he LETS THEM!!! I am at my wits end and don't know what to do.

First I'd like to preface this by saying how much I appreciate this forum, reading and realizing I am not alone, and I am not crazy, and I am NOT A BAD PERSON.

Hi everyone. This is my first time on this forum. I have a 9yo BD and a 15yo SD (just turned 15 in the beginning of the year).

Short version of the story. My BF has 3 daughters, 16 and 13 yo twins. We all got along well in the beginning.

Looking at my sd's (14) instagram account (lives with us), I saw she posted a picture of herself with her biomom. My husband drove her to see her mom and took the picture.

my son has decided not to see me in almost a year. He will be 18 in August. My 2 step-kids, (19 and 17- 1 girl 1 boy), he says are the problem, and that I have done nothing wrong.

And it continues...

Hi there, I'm new here and loving reading all the past posts - finally a bunch of people out there who are having the same struggles as I am, and some far worse.

My FSS13 is so lazy! If he is asked to do the smallest thing, such as, please throw that candy wrapper in the trash, he will freak out. He says no, whines, complains, says you do it.

So I'm feeling better being able to vent my frustration over my 17 yo SD here. I'm getting the strength to not put up with her bullshit and getting ideas on how to deal with this horrible situation.