Parenting Issues

Hi all, I hope I've put this in the right place.

Didn't know where to post this. I'm on my way to Kansas and just keep thinkin about this it's driving me nuts!!

FDH just closed on a new house. His current rental and the new house are within walking distance of BM's house. FDH has two kids: FSS16 and FSD10 and shares 50/50 custody with BM.

DH has 50/50 (every other week) parenting time with SD16 who just got her license in AZ.

SD ( is visiting for the summer... having lots of worries over enforcing our house rules. I have 3 kids with DH and we run a pretty tight ship over here.

Let me start off with- I have a stepson whose now 10, I've been in his life since he was 2. Stepmom for 5 years but always a parent figure. I have children of my own and children with my husband.

I came home from work today to find DH & SD10 wrestling on MY bed. I personally find this to be inappropriate at her age.

Yes, I'm serious. This kid is 10 and doesn't wipe.

Hi, I'm new here.
My issue is, I am married to the man of my dreams, who is a widower. His kids were 7 and 2 when we met. We were married last year, and they are now 11 and 5.

On a previous post:
Just recently BM made her son (5yrs old) call my fiance the other and ask DAD for half of the money for a sport that she had convinced him to take up.