Itwillgetbetter's picture

Please tell me If im seeing things???

I feel that my SD thinks that this is a competition between me and her. She does things to her dad that I think sometimes are not appropriate but her dad doesnt stop her right there. lt me give you some examples. For one she lays on his lap but with her head right on top of his crotch. (am I bugging?) She grabbed him from behind one day and his cell was in his lap and she was grabbing it not knowing what it was and saying whats this!!!! We went to my mothers house and we were all sitting on the sofa but she was practically sitting underneath her father. Thats how far up his ass she was. If he sat up she sat up. please tell me am I wrong am i over reacting??????

Arianna's picture

How old is she?

How old is she?

Itwillgetbetter's picture

She is 9.

She is 9.

Arianna's picture

I would just chalk it up to

I would just chalk it up to her being an annoying child seeking attention, at best. There isn't anything here to indicate that you and her are in any sort of competition. If she were a teenager and she was still doing this, I would have concerns, but it just sounds like she is just being a child. Granted, her behavior is a little annoying from what I have read, but I don't think you should feel any sort of competition here.

StepLightly's picture

I disagree

That is not normal behavior for a 9 year old girl with her father. I ignored that behavior from my 9-year-old Sd and now 10 years later, I realize she was being very manipulative and competitive! Weird!

Arianna's picture

I guess I may be a little

I guess I may be a little naive about that stuff sometimes when it comes to younger kids. I guess I felt that if she were older, then yes, she would have been being manipulative and competitive. I think I have also seen a lot of children that age just be plain annoying the way that this child seems to be. I wouldn't put up with it, though, either way. She needs to be told that she is being inappropriate, or it will only get worse.

Rags's picture

Nope, you are not over reacting. It sounds that SD has some

issues that need to be addressed. She needs to be told to keep her hands to herself.

A 9yo playing I'll show you mine if you show me yours with other 9yo's is one thing but groping Daddy is entirely another. IMHO.

Good luck and best regards,

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