Rissa's picture

No socks

We got the skids after school on Friday for the holiday weekend. SS was dressed in rags of course, a shirt that was too small, old jeans that were too big with holes in them, and no socks. BF asked him why he wasn't wearing any socks and he said because he didn't have any. The BM gets more than enough child support yet she can't even buy him socks!! So I when I went to wal-mart I bought a package of socks, they were $3.75 for 6 pairs. I taped the receipt to the package and then BF taped a note with it that said this:
BM- Could you please make sure that SS wears socks to school from now on. He wasn't wearing any on Friday and when I asked him why he said because he didn't have any. FYI- A package of socks costs less than $4.00. Heard that you were at the casino all afternoon last Tuesday. Do you think maybe you could have shorted yourself $4.00 in gambling money so my child would have socks to wear? It breaks my heart to see them dressed in rags, knowing you are getting more than enough child support yet you spend it all at the casino. Here is a package of socks for him so he doesn't have to go to school embarrassed that he doesn't have any.

It was kinda sad because when they were getting ready to go back to BMs and BF put the new socks in their bag of clothes SS got excited about it and said "oh I get to take those to mom's house?"

She is such a pathetic excuse for a mother!

frustratedinMA's picture

OMG. that is very sad. She

OMG. that is very sad. She is a sad and pathetic loser. So sorry.

Colorado Girl's picture

Well put DH...

and I hope it works.

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

bellacita's picture

that sucks

i still say that the NCP, male or female, should have to produce receipts or some kind of proof to where the CS is going...

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

5teensathome's picture

It is sad AND pathetic

I'd also like to add that you should document ALL these events to the time/date/specific details, so you can provide proof at a later date if it is ever needed in the future when BM actually cries poor and seeks to UP the CS.

This way you can prove that she was not even spending what she was getting in the past on the NEEDS OF THE CHILD.

Women like these are beyond pathetic.

"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis

Rags's picture

Sad and pathetic - Not you or the kid, just the WombDonor

Rissa,

Another example of a "parent" that should have had to have a license in order to breed.

Kudo's to you and Dad for stepping up and being the REAL parents.

Let the WombDonor dump her life down the toilet at the Casino. The kids know who their real parents are.

Not that there is anything wrong with the occasional trip to Vegas or to a Casino. We go occasionally ourselves (My Lovely Bride and I). But not at the expense of basic care for the kid(s).

To highlight a comment by 5teensathome. "(parents) like these are beyond pathetic." There are just as many SpermDonors out there as there are WombDonors. None of the Donors have any business creating children. Thank goodness there is usually at least one side in each blended family that stays focused on the kids and are parents and not just Donors.

The kids belong with the REAL parent(s), Step or Bio. IHMO of course.

Good luck and best regards,

SerendipitySM's picture

Rags - I often say myself

Rags - I often say myself that some people should not have been born with a uterus...

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

smurfy1smile's picture

that's terrible

I get my BD7 back from her biofather and she is usually wearing clothes that are too big or too small, stained and totally dumpy. If you can't afford to buy new than go to the thrift store or garage sales - I still do and it saves me a lot of money that could be spent on other things the kids need. I have offered to give my ex clothes for our child and he has accepted but when his mother goes through our daughters clothes she sends back the stuff I sent for BF to keep at his house and they still fit.

CplStv's picture

Let's Face It,Some "PEOPLE" are Just TOO DUMB TO LIVE OR BREED

Let's Face It, Some "PEOPLE" are Just TOO DUMB TO LIVE OR BREED, without Supervision, At Least, if at all. This Condition is Generally Teminal, and Hereditary...

Steve

Kids are the Best and Worst Things We can do to Ourselves. When We have nothing else worth living for, We'll go on, for Them, but Oh How We Miss Our Freedom...LOL

bellacita's picture

well said steve!

some people should have been born w/o reproductive organs...another way to put it

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

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