Step Talk

You are in my prayers

Oh my goodness, honey I am so very sorry. I don't even know what to say. We are all here for you - stay strong and I will be praying for you.

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

are going out to you, sweetheart. I don't know what else to say. I cannot even imagine. Stay strong for your precious children.

"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis

That is such a cowardly thing to do, and I'm sure you are devastated. And am I reading this right that he left his three bio children with you as well? So so sorry for you.

That is aweful! What a jerk - I am mad for you!!!

I cannot fathom how you feel right now but know that we are here...

~ Remember it's your life too ~

who is going thru pretty much the same thing and I can only imagine the pain, stay strong sweetie for you and for you kids.
hugs xoxoxo

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

Remember that you are not alone we will be there for you.

I am so sorry for you... I am speechless. Will pray for you!

That is truly a coward's way out.

"I've learned you can't have everything and do everything at the same time" Oprah Winfrey

I'm so sorry to hear! what a looser, to do something like this to you... I'm furious for you. Clearly he doesn't deserve you! I know I would be devastated. Are his children going to continue living with you?

Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the dessert cart.-Erma Bombeck:

he left his bio-son, i have full legal cutody to him and his BM's rights were terminated. we have a hearing this month to finalize everything with the judge and get his birth certificate reissued. I have taken care of him for two years. His BM is a drug addict. mark has always had joint custody but i felt compelled to make sure i had legal rights to him in case something ever happened to my husband. my husband also adopted my bioson and the hearing to finanlize his adoption of my daughter is in october. her dad signed away his rights, now i guess i have to tell the judge to stop this unless my husband plans on paying support that i gave up for him because he wanted to be her father.

i am in total shock but i am leaning on God. He already sent a very dear friend my way this morning - the lady i am going to surrogate for . she said she hadn't paid her tithes and she felt she hadnt so that she could help. it hurts me on no end to take help from anyone - you see i am our friend that helps other people. i just went this weekend and bought school supplies for 5 kids - one a little girl who is in a bad situation that has been my "daughter" for a while. I found out this weekend that she told everyone at the church i was her mother. i want to help others but i honestly thank GOD for him today and for my friend. I was able to close the account from future damage, re-route my check and be able to get some groceries and gas until i get paid again.

i dont know what will happen with us - he has to understand that he made the choice to leave when i needed him the most and he has to accept what comes of that. part of me wants to give him a little cash to live off of - he will most likely be staying in his truck but i cant have him here when he took off and left - left me to deal with everything again. he choose to be gone when i got up this morning, he chose to lie to me. i have wanted to leave in the past but sometimes, as my friend put it, god breaks those chains that bind you when you can't break them yourself.

Im so sorry you are going through this!! When i went through my divorce i made sure to use all the support i had. Lots of friends and family!

what a poor excuse for a man---such a disgrace. we are here for u and u are in my thoughts. **hugs**

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

I'm speechless - total disbelief. Did he give a reason for this - not that there is one. I'm praying for you.

"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac

How awful for you. Please feel free to contact me anytime if you need to talk. We all love you!

OMG. I am sooo sorry. That is just unimaginable.

You said you are the friend that normally does the helping.. Guess those friends that you have helped now have a way of thanking you themselves by helping you out.

I am so sorry.

his reason was that he couldn't deal with what he had done and he couldn't face me and be there when i did find out how much was in the account. he just messaged me about why and how did i close it - he was trying to get money in there - meaning he was trying to get a payday loan - he needs to go open a checking account - i am NOT giving him the number.

What a creep! Your family will be in my thoughts.

Dawn

What a nightmare!! I am so sorry SaneOne. You are in my prayers.

My thoughts are on you and your children.

This is so horrible for all of you.

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

I wish you all the best and hopefully karma will get him!

TSO - do you have family or close friends nearby that can help you our right now? I just cannot believe that he could do this to you - I am truly at a loss for words...

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

I am so so very sorry...I'm at a loss for words myself, but know we're here for you & we love you!
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Soon to be Fearless the Free!

If there's anything I can do, let me know. HUGS!

♥ ANNE 8102 ♥

"I know why families were created with all their imperfections. They humanize you. They are made to make you forget yourself occasionally, so that the beautiful balance of life is not destroyed." ~ Anais Nin

Sorry you have to be hurt this way, I will be saying a prayer for you and your family tonight.

OMG--I am so sorry he chose to treat you and the kids this way. What a lousy human being. In the end, you and the kids will come out of this dark time stronger and happier without him.

Always look forward. *hugs!*

There is no excuse for this. You are in all our hearts and prayers, and I hope you can take some strength from us here on ST.

Unbelievable!! How can he do this?!!! I am furious to hear this and I bet you are too! I will pray for you guys honey

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin

What a shock. Oh honey how could he do this to you? You don't deserve this and after you adopted his son!!!

I am so sorry. If you ever just need anyone to talk to PM me and I will give you my phone number.

Hugs!!!!

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"