Step Talk

ok, let's start with my ex husband. Poor guy.... He and his wife have been trying to make their marriage work, but when you are married to the nastiest woman on earth, it is tough. He was supposed to pick up BD this afternoon for his weekend. At 3:30 he said he would be there shortly to get her. A hour later, he called at said he would e extremely late because his wife was supposed to take him to pick up BD and then to the dealership to pick up his jeep. Apparently they got into at lunch (which is where he called me from) and she refused to take him. She left and he had to walk. He was calling me because he was about 30 miles from the dealership and probably 45 from my house. He had no idea when he would get to the house to pick her up. It was pouring rain down where I was, so I told him not to be dumb and I was on my way. Called DH and told him the situation, which of course he was fine with. When I finally got to EX he was soaking wet from walking. I finally got him to the dealership (where I hid on the side of the dealership in case his wife showed up!!!) When we got there, his wife sent a message saying to lose the house key because he was not welcome. He got his jeep, then came back with a Huge blue stain on his shirt. Pen leaked all over! He told me that he wasnt sure if he would be at his house or at his mom's house with BD, but he called into work and said he was not coming in. He took BD out to dinner and a movie. Hopefully things look up. I made him promise if wifey got crazy, he would call me to come get BD. She busted his lip before and punched him... so, hopefully no major incidences this weekend. I feel bad for the guy because he really is a pretty decent man.

Now, onto a major discovery we just made!!!! SD's mom is married and never told us! DH's sister called him today because one of his ex girlfriends sent her a friend request on myspace. She was looking at the page and the friends on the page. Low and behold, there is a picture of one of her friends and it is some guy and BM. Of course my sister in law clicked and this page came up with SD's mom and a guy. It says that they are married and there are even pictures of SD on the page! Apparently they got married in December 2006, she was sent to prison in December 2006 shortly after. When SD would go visit, she did not even know this was her step father! Nobody has yet to tell us. DH said that he knew the guy (it was a small town) and it was known that this guy (allegedly...gotta through that in for all legal purposes) was paying BM for sexual favors. Well, she married him at the same time she came up dirty on her drug test. Wouldn't you think that as her dad, DH should have been informed!

So now we are trying to figure out if they are still married, is she living with him, did he wait for her to get out of prison.... so many questions. I want to post the myspace page address for all of you to see what the crack head looks like and see how we had to find out she is married... But I am not sure if that is appropriate... Maybe this will help us in locating her. DH says the guy is really strange! His page is full of friends that are like porn starts and sex stuff. UGH!!! Even more reason to fight to keep this lady away from my little girl!

Just thought I would let ya'll know! Hope you guys have good weekends.