BabygotBack1988's picture

well ladies

id just like to say im feeling much better now and to take back all stupid comments i said about nto leaving cos the pain is to much well im much happier now and see the pain was not only nessecary for me to have a good life but for me to be happy to so to all of you out there that want to leave but are to scared do it yes it is very very hard at first but is totally worth it

bellacita's picture

YAY BABY!!!

im so happy youre there! and see...it didnt take that long at all...and all the pain in teh beginning really IS worth it in the end! im so happy you are in this better place!

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

BabygotBack1988's picture

yes

i still have bad days but i actually have good days now instead of dreading every day. i never did get a dog i ended up with a kitten got him 2 days ago and cant think of a name for him i want to call him something stupid like nugget or peanut

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

bellacita's picture

nugget

i like nugget...its cute!

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

Sita Tara's picture

My cat was my constant friend through some tough times...

I have been thinking about a puppy for the kids. But MAN oh MAN are cats so independent and easy!

It's tough to go back to having sitters for pets when I get away for a weekend.

CONGRATULATIONS on your NEW and FABULOUS LIFE!!!!!!

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

BabygotBack1988's picture

hahaha ill see what he thinks when i get home

he seems to answer to bugger to. i really do feel really bad for all my bad advise given on here about no leaving especially chava i forgot her new name My bad but i do remeber i told he not to go it wasnt worth it bla bla bla but it is im much happier and im poor have no food in ect ect i was stuggling any how with his money now there is only mine but im happy

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

happysomeday's picture

don't feel bad, everyone

don't feel bad, everyone here knows that no one can convince me to leave anyway because i just don't listen, even though i know everyone cares and wants the best

i'm happy to hear that you're starting to feel better. you're a strong person to be able to get through it. i read your journal and i understand that very deep pain and sadness, and have felt it myself even though i haven't left yet, because of him telling me he wants me to leave. i've felt it, and know how horrible it is, and am so happy that you're feeling stronger and happier

sarahbernheart's picture

kudos to you

I left my husband after 18 yrs it was extremely hard but I tell you I have never ever been as happy as I am even with all the STEP issues, we are all glad to see you back!!

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

BabygotBack1988's picture

ooooh no

i dont think i could ever date a guy with kids again i couldnt handle it i dont think they where just so rude

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

CplStv's picture

I TOLD YOU SO !!! I Knew You could Do It !

I Agree with You, though, If I end up apart from Lis', I'LL NEVER BREAK MY RULES ABOUT GETTING SERIOUSLY INVOLVED WITH CHICKS WITH KIDS AGAIN !!!

Steve

Kids are the Best and Worst Things We can do to Ourselves. When We have nothing else worth living for, We'll go on, for Them, but Oh How We Miss Our Freedom...LOL

sarahbernheart's picture

me either

if FH and I dont work out I am flying solo!!!!!

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

storm's picture

Running

My boyfriend and I just had a conversation about this last night. He told me he sees me as a runner. Yeah, I took offense and had to explain to him.. I don't consider myself a quitter. I'll fight like hell and try to make things work the best I can, but I have enough sense to know when it's just not possible and move on to something more productive. The unknown is a scary place to be. So, kudos to all who listen to their inner voice and believe in their own happiness, wherever it may lead.

"I've never been a millionaire but I just know I'd be darling at it." Dorothy Parker US author, humorist, poet, & wit (1893 - 1967)

Sia's picture

Good for you, I am glad to hear

you are feeling better!

evilsm's picture

Me too

So glad to hear you are feeling better. I think we all respond to posts with some influence of how we are feeling at the moment, I know I do. I hope you stick around and let us know how things progress on the "other side". Hugs to you!

~Evil

If you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders. ~Abigail Van Buren

B's picture

Congratulations!! I'm so

Congratulations!! I'm so glad that you're doing well and happier. Smiling

luvdagirl's picture

Glad to hear it, Bugger is

Glad to hear it, Bugger is super cute, but all my animals are named after old tv shows or good books so I am not very creative.

There is no reason where logic does not exist

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