Step Talk

I have a SD who is 29 an she is from DH's first marriage to her mother. DH married the current BM that I have to deal with and SD went through hell. She was beaten by BM, called horrible names like "whore, slut, etc" DH was working nights and had no idea what was going on when he was not at home. That is awful and SD is such a beautiful wonderful loving woman. DH said she was a good kid and knowing the woman she is I believe it. BM was just jealous of SD because if you ever seen a pic of her you would see SD is drop dead gorgeous and BM always had to be the center of attention. BM started the slapping of my youngest SD a couple of years ago. She slapped SD then only 8 in the face because she didn't like the way she said something. I NEVER hit SD yet I got accused of it by BM. Now really BM lives around the world and would even know if I slapped SD or not. Funny how the accusers are always the person really doing the bad things to the kids.

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

BM is a SM herself, or well he has children and they sometimes live w/the 2 of them. BM's BF is an alcoholic and had 2 girls from 2 previous marriages. BM does NOT get along with either of them...though I am not sure why, well I KNOW why, but her reasons why are a mystery to me. BM once told me ( I think she was high) that I had done a "good job" w/skids and she was glad that I raised them.....

Well the BM is officially a SM now that she married (on a pirate ship lol) to 3 young boys. She does things to them already. At Christmas time the middle boy (same age as my SD7) said that he missed his mom (they had been away from her for a week or more for holiday visitation. She told him to stop being a baby and sent him to the room he shares with his brothers for the entire day. He was very upset and when I heard about it from his mother, so was I. She's a horrible person....

I am astounded that people need to take so many courses on how to drive, but just any piece of shit off the street can get pregnant and have a baby, get married, divorce, cheat, lie, destroy their family and abuse children. Where are the courses on parenting that you need to get 90% and up to pass? Some people just should NOT have kids in any capacity, and my skids BM is one of them.

~ Remember it's your life too ~

Luckily, SD's BM and her fiance, who has a daughter in 3 grade, broke up without getting married.

BM made fun of the little girl to SD for her being "fat" (she was a little chubby, but in a normal baby fat way- the last time I saw her was kindergarten). BM also verbally attacked the BM of that little girl, at the child's preschool program, for saying...

HELLO to BM and trying to introduce herself to her exH's fiance, and supposed future SM to her BD.

I found out about that because the little girl went to elementary school with my son, and I ran into both her BM and SD's BM's exFiance when they would pick her up there.

The little girls mom and I became friendly, but I think her exH told her not to talk to me anymore, because I don't get responses from her email anymore. I didn't repeat the story or anything, so I am thinking that it's because BM is crazy jealous and paranoid (self fulfilling prophecy there- if you ACT crazy then yes people will find out and discuss YOU). I wonder if my SD told her that her F's ExW and I were friendly. He would do anything to spare himself, and his exW the wrath I'm sure.

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra