Step Talk

I am guessing she is busy enjoying her new found freedom from an asshole husband and stepkids that treated her terrible. Last I heard she had moved out moved on and got herself a new boy toy

"I didn't lose my mind, I sold it on ebay."

Fearless is still around. I read this site faithfully, every day.

Actually I am enjoying life...it's funny; for as much as my husband and I fought over the kids, the ex, the family, etc, once we got away from each other, we are SO much better of friends! He has been in Mexico all this week and he kept in touch with me (hi, how are you, blah, okay, it's THURSDAY I'm ready to go home, ROFL) all week via email. We talk basically on a daily basis, and I've actually gone to him for advice regarding fair weather friends, etc.

I DON'T ask him about his kids; nor do I care. I DON'T ask him about his family, nor do I care. I DON'T ask him about his ex - i REALLY DON'T care...HA!! Sometimes I *DO* miss him (and the lifestyle I led, to be honest...my new guy is WONDERFUL but rich he's not and that's okay)...but here's what I don't miss:

I don't miss feeling like a second class citizen around his family, his ex and his children. I don't miss my stomach turning whenever his youngest little darling would call and my night would be ruined. I don't miss all the times that got f*cked up because one or the other of them needed something minor that could've waited.

Even our 2nd wedding anniversary got completely screwed up because his daughter was pregnant and ready to pop, and instead of just putting off our trip for a couple days (we were headed to a GORGEOUS B&B at the coast)...we went and the whole time he was stressed about WHEN she would have the baby, etc...(which she did, that weekend, I knew she would) and the trip just sucked because he was (rightfully) concerned about his daughter the whole time and constantly driving out to the road to have cell reception literally, like, every hour to check how she was doing. But honestly?? Why even f*cking go? I was so pissed and hurt over that...you guys can't even know, and it was just another block on the towering stack of resentments that had been building since about 3 months after we got married. And that, of course, was the beginning of the end.

I don't miss ANY of those things, at all!!

What I have lost financially, I have gained:
FREEDOM
PEACE OF MIND
A MAN THAT LOVES ME more than life itself and pays more attention to me almost then I can stand *laughs*, who DOESN'T have an ex and NO children and just a mom, like me. You guys know how f*cking RARE that is???

The funny thing is, like I say, I am actually enjoying a FRIENDSHIP with my soon-to-be ex husband...he doesn't know about my dating life, and I don't know about his. It's just not something we discuss. I DID tell him in NO uncertain terms, though, that if and when HE ever gets remarried the phone calls and the emails will STOP. I refuse to be like his ex. I personally am NOT in contact with a single member of his family...although my mother still loves STBX and asks for him often; and that's fine...however, when I brought my new man around, there were still pictures up of STBX...I was mortified. (Granted, Ma didn't know we were coming...and the NEXT time, they were GONE!) Luckily, New Guy's very secure with himself.

AAAaaaaaaaaaaaanyhow, as I sit in my cozy apartment that's ALL mine, with MY things...MY TV, MY coffee table that my feet are up on...etc. I've got my little cat next to me sleeping...waiting for my boyfriend to get back from the store...life is good. I'm waiting for my finances to even out, but that'll come. It's scary to live on your own after having money thrown at you for 2+ years...but I've done it before and I WILL do it again. Hell I AM doing it.

I love you guys!!! I'm still here, and still FEARLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!

MMFCL (ICP fans will know what that means)
Fearless

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Soon to be Fearless the Free!

Look at her, I sware she is awesome. With her feet up waiting on her boy toy. ROFLMAO !!!

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

Oh trust me, he ain't no boy toy...he's ALL MAN!!!

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Soon to be Fearless the Free!

You sound sooooo happy, and so in control! I love it, it's wonderful to be free!"~waiting on the world to change~"

lose about 30 lbs...wish me luck ladies, I seriously need some good let's let Fearless Drop About 30 Lbs. From Her Fat Ass vibes!!!!!!!!!

oxooxo
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Soon to be Fearless the Free!