BabygotBack1988's picture

im weak

well i know im really weak but i just cant handle it i have asked him to come back, stay in the spare bed and see if we can figure things out !!
i couldnt handle all the pain and i do love him and want things to work out there will be no kids exept for days out no nite time jobs ect ect

HA IDO's picture

Are you sure?

Are you really sure this is what you want and you are not doing this because you are afraid of being alone?

If you can work things out great. I truly hope this works out for you. Only you know what you can deal with.

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

BabygotBack1988's picture

i think

its both actually yes i want to work things out ive always been a fighter. and im not sure i like being alone

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

stepwitch's picture

alone is scary..

but being alone when your with someone is miserable. Here for you.

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

BabygotBack1988's picture

very true

i guess but im not scared on my own i dont feel anything i sit by the window waiting for him to coem home i veen sat outside yesterday cos i herd a moterbike and thought it would be him i sat there for an hour !! i think im loosing it sometimes

i wont clean up well its clean just messy liek ti was when he was there. i havent washed his clothes. im a mess im all confused and loosing it i bet you lot are getting so fed up with me changing my mind

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

sarahbernheart's picture

only you

know how much you can deal with or what you want to deal with, we are not fed up with you "recent" just worried, lord knows I took back a man that I was better off learning to live without, but if you need to be absolutely sure he is or isnt then the best thing is to have him come back, but if he does there has to be some ground rules, you have to enjoy your life too, with him and without him
good luck!!

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

stepwitch's picture

I'm so sorry

Ok, girl, go wash your face and look in the mirror and repeat after me:

I AM STRONG, I AM INVINSIBLE, I AM WOMAN !!!!!!! (is that a song?)

Don't you feel better. You have the power in your soul to heal your broken heart, may take time, may take patience, but it will be done. The power of a woman - well, needs no explanation.

Today, go on and have a bad one, tomorrow, have a good one !!!!

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

Most Evil's picture

I had forgotten

that song but it is great for this!! glad you're back stepwitch, you made me laugh out loud

Baby - you do what you need to do and don't worry what anyone thinks. This could go either way so don't get your heart set on anything yet though. Look up this song on itunes and play it!

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin

SerendipitySM's picture

Hey there - I hope that he

Hey there - I hope that he has learned his lesson and does right by you this time. Sometimes these giys need a good wake up call to straighten their a**es out - if not we are always here.... Smiling

BabygotBack1988's picture

thanks

for the support i just think im not ready to let go i am going to do things the right way this time he inds just forced everything on me all at one time and with me being ill at the time i lost

update on that btw his recent actions sent my heart over the edge it sent me back to the way is was before i was on the tablets around 200 a min (it should be 70) so was proper doing over time lol but docs had no chioce but to OD me on these tablets come to think of it maybe there making me feel a bit weird about things??

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Sticking out tongue

bellacita's picture

i hope this works out

i hope he really did get a wake up call here and is ready to work w you on the things u need...take care and let us know how it goes!

vickmeister's picture

so . . .

Are you changing your user name again? Puzzled

I remain, the world's most evil stepmom; ask anyone.

HA IDO's picture

Maybe?

Recently rehired??? Sorry couldn't resist Smiling

I hope you are doing better!!!

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

unknown's picture

everybody has a different 'threshold'

of what they can tolerate and for how long. i think you may not be at that threshold yet and if that's the case, give it another try. it may take a few more heartbreaks before you can leave permanently, but only you know when you've truly - had enough. so good luck.

Just trying to be a Stepmom without getting Stepped On.

CplStv's picture

I can't fault You on Your Choice...

I can't fault You on Your Choice...Lis' and I have Spilt Up, UMPTEEN TIMES, and I Keep Coming Home...You Need To Do What Feels Right To YOU ! If You have to Boot Him Again, Such Is Life...You Will Either Work It Out, or Reach Your Limit Of Tolerance, and Walk away Forever...

I'll Be Here, for You, whatever You Choose To Do, just as Almost Everybody here has been for Me, through all that's happened.

Steve
Kids are the Best and Worst Things We can do to Ourselves. When We have nothing else worth living for, We'll go on, for Them, but Oh How We Miss Our Freedom...LOL

HA IDO's picture

I totally agree

Only you know what your limits are and when you had enough. I stayed with my former Fiance for 4 years before I had enough of his BS!! Everyone around me could not believe the things I put up with and knowing me why I put up with it knowing how strong I was in the past. Well it took that long to gather my strength to fight this man and I did. I left him and never looked back. No regrets because I did everything in my power to make the relationship work. He just wasn't worth it anymore.

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

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